I guess this is gonna be hard. Any advices? U_U
Ex-wife was diagnosed Borderline. ;)
>>1 actually,what does the girl think about the condition? Her attitude might be important.
>>5 well, it's not always going to be easy, but on the other hand it's easier than if for instance she did not accept her condition and refused treatment.
I don't see why you should not try.
Also, Borderlines are the best in bed. No joking. Absolutely freaky.
Ok, so shes borderline. Thing is you know what her biggest weaknesses are and if you have spent enough time with her you know that she might see your statements as truth as long as you have not been working more on just making her feel good and focused on being honest and nice to her. If you then approach her and tell her how you feel honestly she will then regard you higher and might date you.
Secondly Imagine what it will do for her mental health.
There is a bit of a downside. if you like her enough be ready for a long tough road ahead. She will go from one extreme to the other but it is through you that she will have a common anchor to hold onto. With this in mind, Do not back out the second it seems too rough. If you do that, it might hurt her mentally worse than she is right now. So, you have to be willing to commit.
Can you see yourself with her a number of years down the road? If you can then go for it. Hook line and sinker her and never let go. The more trouble you two get into, is the more you have to love her. Even when things get to the worst, love her more and never let go. Love is a tough road and nobody is perfect, You saw through her imperfections and know what kind of a person she is deep down. Never forget that and you should have no insurmountable problems with her.
>>8, I see what you are aiming for, but no one can know whether he can commit himself for years in a relationship, specially at the beginning of it. It's enough that the OP feels sincerely about it, there's no need for him to put so much pressure on himself that he gives up prematurely.
Vc; Deadly JESUS CHRIST! Ó_Ò
op here. I think i'll be able to hang on, though i still haven't found the perfect ocassion to tell her what i feel. Yesterday we spent a lot of time together. Well, actually she spent a lot of time shopping and i was carrying her bags. I guess i need to work in my security as well. U_U
Op here; Mission accomplished! =D