I get the weirdest mixed messages.
One one hand I am told that when I get to japan I am going to find a nice girl and most likely marry and/or take care of her.

On the other hand, I get told by other people that all women in asian countries are just out to get a green card and come to america, where they will then divorce the husband and leave him with a mountain of debt.

are the latter rumors founded in something or is it just typically arrogant american stigma about marrying someone of the other race and implanting into my head that idea so I only marry the atypical blonde haired blue eyed empty headed woman that every man should want?

I'm gonna be over there for 3 years so I KINDA would like a good answer