The Girl In The Sky. (22)

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-22 11:18 ID:dgwUKSQ2

If my reckoning is right, she isn't actually shy, well maybe, but more importantly she has a really loose attachment style, and has less need for social contact than those around her. I'm like this and really, its not that I don't like spending time with people, I really do, but sometimes I need solitude and my interest with people comes and goes. I know that I'm not a good friend at times, and I know that this aspect of my personality sucks but I can't force myself to do something like socialize when I'm not interested in it, since it would be dishonest and isn't genuine. On the other hand I can be really interested in certain people and I'm really driven to get to know and spend time with them, but this is quite rare.

Well, I'm just offering a potential alternate viewpoint for this, whether its accurate or not is impossible to know really. Perhaps she just has her reasons for how she is, and it might not be something that will change. Just keep contacting her every now and then and see what happens. Maybe even ask her why she's like this, ask her how you should be a friend to her, see if you can come to understand her more. I really wonder if anyone has bothered to ask :/

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