Big update: She contacted me late Sunday, (after a hiatus of 1 1/2 months), and immediately apologized for reasons "I probably already know". And the good news is, I feel she is really trying.

I think you're fully right about her personality; she's not shy, but rather socially unattached. But you know what? I think I can accept that.

I think she epitomizes my ideal form of love, because she keeps me hungry. So I'll do my best to "be destiny" without forcing her to change.

Thank you for your support, everyone. :] I shall update you all on my progress.