>>2 I've told her that my friend and that is the part that is killing me. She doesn't care. She has said the only thing she can do is try her best to hate me. This is a very difficult solution for me to except because she KNOWS she is like my little sister to me and I have this nesessity I feel to protect her...and in this situation if it were to play out that way, I will feel an emptiness from not being able to take care of her. I have several other younger sisters "real ones" and am so used to being the big brother so losing her as my sister is an extremely last resort that i'm hoping I don't have to accept. ahhhh!!