Here's what you do:
Join a mountain monastery for ten years.
Christian, Buddhist, Secular Humanist, whatever.
Then you can go back and attempt a relationship with a little woman.

Trying to keep it 'safe' and 'healthy' and 'alive' is a disaster waiting to happen. If you don't have the self-control to remain celibate in a single-sex environment for ten years, then there's no way you have the self-control to not put yourself in prison and her in life-long counseling.

I am completely serious, but I don't believe you actually have the self-control to do the right thing.