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13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-06-11 02:13 ID:A7s9PVfr

Oh I consider myself a nice guy. But I think it is a worthy to note that nice does not mean weak.

I am nice. I look out for my friends, help others in need. I don't start drama. I don't fuck girls and then leave them. I am a nice guy.

But at the same time, I don't let people use me, take advantage of me. I hold my ground in arguments, I have confidence in my actions. I will show you respect as long as you show me some in return.

I think we need to distinguish the difference between being a nice guy and being a weak guy.

If you need validation. If you constantly struggling to be liked by someone, not trying to rub them the wrong way. You are being used and stepped on. That is weakness not a symptom of being nice.

So it is a not that nice guys finish last, it is really, weak guys finish last.

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