I'm really nervous right now. I'm not really that shy lately, but when it comes to normal girls I just fail. Anyway, yesterday I went to a county fair in a county other than my own. While there I saw a few girls that stood out to me. The third of which this will all be about.
The first girl was "The Girl" - a girl of extreme beauty, the "perfect" type of girl. No doubt she had the worst possible personality.
The second girl was "The Skirt Girl" - a rave-style girl that was an arrogant bitch, but extremely attractive.
The third was the "Lemonade (Stand) Girl" - an extremely cute blond working in a lemonade stand. She was extremely nice and had an adorable personality. Slim. Light freckles. Lots of smiles.
Anyway, the first two girls were admired for awhile by my friends and I, but of course they were always unapproachable. After a while I spotted the Lemonade Girl working the Lemonade Stand. I was joking with my friends about approaching her and saying "Hey. I don't want a lemonade, but you're really cute." (regardless to say, I did not do that)
My friends then went to great lengths to try to get me to talk to her (dragging me around and etc.), to which I finally fled the scene. One guy asked her if she found me attractive, but sadly she hadn't seen my face. orz
A couple hours later my group returned to the Lemonade Stand. We sat nearby as they once again tried to convince me to do it (without the pushing and dragging, etc.). Finally a female friend of mine approached the girl as we watched from where we were sitting. We had no idea what they were talking about.
Finally she returned and said, "Well she has The Shy Admirer's number in her cellphone now, and will text or call him later. She knows you don't have service at the moment." She also went on to describe what she found out about her. She actually lived in my county and not that far away for one, and she's single!
They then wanted me to go down and order a lemonade so she could at least see me directly and know who was admiring her. So under pressure I eventually gave in and went down to the lemonade stand. I waited behind some kid as they ordered their lemonade, and the girl kept coming into eye contact with me and smiling as she prepared the kid's lemonade.
Then I stepped forward and ordered a small lemonade amidst shy smiles from the two of us. As she was preparing it she smiled and asked me, "So, are you The Shy Admirer?" to which I awkwardly replied, "Yeahh." with an equally awkward smile. I thanked her for the lemonade, and she said "No, thank you."
I then fled back to my friends who were happy about the result. And then a couple minutes later we started to leave. I waved to her while leaving, and she actually waved back. Success.
I finally got back home late at night and listened to my cellphone's voicemail. She had actually left a message, "Hey The Shy Admirer, this is the girl at the fair. Bye." But my cellphone didn't record the number from where the phone was off, and the voicemail didn't either. So my only choice is to do the "return call" option and hope it actually calls her back, but I am horribly nervous. orz
I'll work up the courage soon and call the Lemonade Girl and post about how it goes. I don't even know her name...
When I tried it said the callback number is unavailable. So I have to wait to see if she'll try calling again, or try to find her myself somehow.
Try going back to where the lemonade stand was set up. Even if she isn't selling lemonade there again, you could ask around to see if anybody knows who she is. Or, if you're too shy to do that, just try and look around that area on a bike or something, to see if you can spot her. Also, She might've got the wrong idea because you didn't call back; that you were just fooling around and weren't serious. Knowing you tried hard to find her should satiate her suspicions; since it's summer, I'm sure she'll know that it was tough work finding her, in the case that she wasn't at the same spot.
If she doesn't call you, and you do try and find her, you've gotta prepare to spark a conversation. It might make her feel a bit awkward knowing you had to search for her, so making her feel at ease will be key. Good luck.
be yourself, gambarre! kitaaa!!
Maybe your female friends knows more about were she lives.
As you said, she found out she didn't live to far.
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I don't think so...I wouldn't give my phone number out to randoms, let alone my address.
Keep calling again, but not obsessively. I wouldn't call her more than another couple of times.
Girls who sell Lemonade, often have thousands of boyfriends (and hundreds of GIRL-Friends wink-wink) every Summer. You ought to forget about her and look for a girl who sells ORANGE Juice! Because any person can make common LemonAde; but it takes a unique individual to Hand-Squeeze (wink-wink) many many big hard Oranges (wink-wink).
Besides... you've BLOWN it with Lemonade girl. By now she thinks you're a looser for blowing her off, & not having cell phone coverage when your friend gave her your number, instead of YOU giving her your number. Plus Lemon sized breasts cum and go ...out with a LOT of people.
You want Oranges. Trust me! Oranges are the BEST!