Does he like me or not ? (4)

1 Name: sailorfire22 : 2009-10-25 06:34 ID:I6jsMFsp

Hello, I am new at this so just bare with me. I have been using msn messenger for about seven months now and I have been talking to the same person. He is a 24 year old japanese male. We use to talk often but not as much now though, so we exchange emails and have decided to start doing snail mail as well. He lives in Tokyo and I live in the united states, I am a 22 year old light skin african american. So, what I was trying to figure out is if he liked me. I have sent him pictures and he thinks that I amd beautiful. He has called me beautiful more tha once, even though I don't think of myself in that way, he also thinks that I have a good heart. I plan on going to Japan in the summer. I am divorced and I have three chilren, and he knows this. The thing is that I wonder why he says these things to me. He is very encouraging and supports me even though we are miles apart. He also says that he thinks about me even when we aren't chatting and he says he misses me too. I was wondering could anyone tell me what this means or am I reading into this to much? Please Help!!!

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-10-25 13:38 ID:4tWH594n

You are asking a very vague question, so allow me to break it down: You can safely assume that he is interested in you, since both of you have been corresponding for months now. He obviously also cares for you, since he supports you and claims to miss you. I think both reasons explain why he says those things to you. The reasons behind those reasons can be manifold, and it is pointless to speculate. You will discover them in time, no reason to spoil the fun.

As to whether he is in love with you, or whether he might think of creating a family and household with you is something we cannot answer. It's actually probable that at the moment not even he knows the answer to that. Before getting there you would have to actually meet together, experience each other, and allow feelings to grow between one another. Only THEN could the question perhaps arise.

I think you are better off taking things one step at a time. You plan to visit Japan next summer. If he is interested in actually meeting you, and if the chemistry between you works out well, then you may allow yourself to think further ahead. In any case, I'll be rooting for you ^_^)

3 Name: sailorfire22 : 2009-10-26 06:13 ID:5IPTBtwR

Thanks for your reply! I hope that everything will work out o.k.!!!

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-12-25 14:42 ID:4BtPYy6Y

He likes you but it is better to get off the MSN otherwise things will became too complicated. I am in the same situation and I choose to study for upcoming exam which is very hard.

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