I'm very full of hate. (53)

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-01-16 09:11 ID:rRvmsb1E

>>19 "But I find that it's not that they are the problem, it's the fact that I can't get over that I can't be their ideal. That I wasn't born to be superman. That i'm not the beautiful guy in magazines, that I'm not ultra-talented, or incredibly intelligent. I can't be that person, because I am who I am. And surely, there is someone out there who can accept that and accept me as I am."

that was well stated.

guys have to remember that the same is true of girls. females are punished and treated like garbage and expected to do all kinds of unhealthy things to their bodies to try to fit in some ideal mold. girls who do not fit this ideal- specific age range/body type/size & shape limits- are treated as worthless. less than human.

often on these threads the "boohoo nobody wants me" coming from these guys is more truthfully "boohoo nobody who fits my limited ideal of what is acceptable to find attractive (regardless of how "ideal" i myself am) wants me!"

all that being said- OP, maybe you were having a really, really shitty day when you wrote that, which s fine because everyone needs to vent now and then... but if that is really how you feel all the time, you should probably get some help before you hurt yourself or others.

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