Remain friends or confess? (5)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2009-11-18 13:59 ID:ufv/BaWi

It's the senior of high school and I can't believe I have a major crush on a friend this late. I've known this guy since 8th grade, but never had any feelings of that sort and I rarely talked to him for the past three years. He looks like someone really smart and wouldn't even bother to talk with me. But one day we met during our free blocks and we just started talking. Then I found that it's really easy to talk to him and he's really funny! And I also found we have quite a lot in common, so we always have something to about. We talked like... everyday and became such great friends now (only started talking more 2 months ago!). But now I'm sorta crushing on him for he is really a nice guy and his smiles just brightens my day (that sounds so cheesy but yeah..) So I'm wondering should I just remain his friend or confess to him before high school year ends (which is next year in June), or should I just keep looking for signs whether he's got any chance of liking me or not? He said so himself he wanted a gf someday too, but will he ever consider me? (this is what I asked myself...) I'm sorry if I'm being vague, this is my first time using this web forum thing. Thanks ahead.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-19 01:55 ID:NQNIHHPT

You've only been friends two months, it's not like you have anything to lose. Do it!

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-19 07:33 ID:j0+9phN6

You can confess to him, but you can also further your agenda without confessing. Just do with him what couples do together. If he goes along this will give more time for both of you to adjust to the possibility of a relationship.

So invite him to do stuff involving just the two of you (the specifics depend on your common tastes, but probably going to the movies, or to the park, or to each other's place. Also don't hesitate to touch him, this creates more intimacy. In this whay you can build a de facto relationship without forcing him to decide quickly upon being confessed to.

If this works out and you are all but in name dating, then confess to him. But this is only one way of getting there. Perhaps the direct confession could also work, considering that you are doing so well together.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-22 06:16 ID:I5Ublyle

If you're going to do anything OP, you need to do what >3 said. Further it without confessing yet, do things outside of school with JUST the two of you.

I hate to tell you this, but to me it just looks like a classic friend zone relationship. Wouldn't hurt to try though, if he doesn't see you as a gf material you can still be friends. Not to mention all the guys you'll meet at college.

What ever you do, good luck.

5 Name: Hikari-chan : 2009-12-18 11:09 ID:6vK3JQvz


I'm a bit late.

But, are somehow similar you know.

All you have to do []-chan is observe him. If he really is showing many signs of liking you then go for it.


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