My girlfriend was a really devout christian when I met her, she told me that the number one most important thing she looks for in a guy is that he is also a devout christian. After a few months I started winning her over though, but she still told me that if I wanted to be with her, I would have to start reading the bible and attending church. Now we've been together for almost a year and I've never been to church, nor have I read a page from the bible and she goes to church less and less herself. She stopped asking me to go and she hasn't even mentioned me going to church in months. However, I'm always scared she might start becoming really spiritual again, but i have heard from others that they were able to change a girls mind about religion. One of my friends said his girlfriend told him "I love you more than god."