I already agreed not to bother with trying to friend request her again, and I did ask her if she was going to the anime convention next month in DC. She said she was, so I may have a chance to talk to her, and maybe hang out with her again in a few weeks. I mean, I don't want to push too hard or too quick, because I don't want her to think I joined the anime club to "troll" for younger women. I also don't want to end up making it uncomfortable for her or I going to the various events that the clubs hold. I know she is in a college anime club also, with a girl that has known me since I joined the club, and I know she likes me (as a friend, and there is no romantic interest at all), who goes to the same college and is in the anime club. Should I ask my friend to talk to her to "feel" out if there might be some mutual attraction there?