I'm in love with this awesome girl. I'm usually a bit on the introverted side, but I managed to do some effort to get to know this girl I saw in college. Right now, I'm attending some classes with her - along with her friends, which some I managed to befriend.
I really like this girl, she's really pretty, we share a lot of hobbies together and all. But my problem is that she's also surrounded by a lot of guys. More particularly, guys that also like her, at least I think so.
Now a bit more about me, personally I think I'm very capable of one on one situations. I'm a bit shy, but if I get a chance to be alone with her, I don't let it pass and try to do something. But when there are people around, especially those I don't know yet (majority of the people in class are from her block), I'm very veeeeery, uh, introverted I guess?
tl;dr, how to get that girl that everyone likes to like me.
More information if you guys ask. Thanks /love/ ;_;
Well, the first thing your going to want to do is talk to her. If you do then your already to a good start. Then, youve got to figure out what kind of stuff shes into.
Now there are several things you can always do to make any girl like you: Be in good shape and have good hygene. If your out of shape, then join a gym and do some situps, if you dont have good hygene then start taking showers.
Other than that, just have the balls to walk up and go "hey want to go out sometime?"
And good luck fam.
I should have stated this on the OP. I've been introduced to her by a mutual friend, and we've been hanging out. However, recently in class, it's been me, her, and her friends. For some reason, I'm not very comfortable when talking in groups, especially when there are people I don't know. Luckily, I managed to befriend some of her close friends when we were hanging out.
I'm pretty average I think, and recently I think I'm fat. I asked her, she said I didn't look fat at all. Despite that however, I've been starting to work out, and I don't think I have any problem in my hygiene since I bath daily, shave weekly etc.
And I've actually asked her out for a movie some time ago. She said she can't since her parents won't allow her to go if it's just the two of us. ;__;
Well, the thing I'm worried about is how to get her heart at these circumstances. Not to mention, I can see at least two other people who like her in her group of friends.
I'm off to class, hopefully I can talk to her later even when her (other) friends are there.
>I'm pretty average I think, and recently I think I'm fat.
That tells you all you need to know right there. This girl is pretty, you're not, you will never date her and she will never like you. Find someone who's in your league.
>>4
It doesn't always work out that way, I've known a few guys who were less than good looking, not rich or with particular status who got great girls. They must have something good about them y'know but it isn't always the obvious stuff. Though it obviously doesn't hurt to be fit and take care of yourself, really these things you have control over.
But if you are in college, as in university? then her parents really have no place telling her who she can go out with and under what circumstances, most likely this was some sort of blow-off.
>>4
you know, you really shouldn't be on this board.
2 words: Get it!
I have faith in you friend, just take care of yourself and dont play to hard with the other competition, they might have feelings lol.