i hate to say it but i agree with:
>>18

Im asian and i actaully dislike asians who dont social, party, drink, flirt, etc...makes the asian race as a whole, disfunctional to the point you get the media contributing to the disrespectful nonsense you see now, which is why I myself detach my whole chinese culture and follow my birthplace, The Mighty Brave Scotland, Home of the Brave.

In anycase, I suggest you do the same to some extent; you cant follow your ancient ancestors way and act like a starved dog and just let it happen and not fight back.

What you call "Social Norms" is actually Natural Human Behaviour, its been like this for centuries, you my friend are disillusioned by your selfish asian desires and need to wake up and smell the alcohol.

>>Really though, I just want to find a nice girl who can get high off of climbing trees, swimming in lakes, spelunking abandoned factories, standing on top of hills, or running through dense forests and fields of grass; top it off with a few hours of basking by a steady stream, just to indulge in silence... Anything romanticized and organic, away from the chaos that is conformity--contrived, thoughtless, and normalized.

you havent had a gf yet due to your personal beliefs im i correct? in essence you feel bitter and envious that you are acting out the old asian stereo type that you dont see,

staying on the computer as its not possible to make your idea of fun a reality so to live it out in computer games, stay inside?

(PS. If your lookin for a female companion, in hopes to be happy; it doesnt work that way...its not alway going to be climbing trees, swimming in lakes or spelunking in factories all the time....)