I'm surprised this thread is still open. I'm humored by a lot of everyone's negativity and "rational" assumptions. I was never against any actual activity, I thought I readdressed that? It's the people that I was disappointed in. People who do the things they do for the wrong reason. For me to initially state that I wanted to look for people who didn't party, drink, do drugs or smoke was very misleading on my part. It was the simplest way to differentiate the kinds of people I was interested in. In my area, I'd say 90% of the people I've met who were in any way associated with these activities did so for the wrong reasons. Asian hippy? Sure, I might be one. You make it sound so bad. How on Earth do I make other Asian's look bad? By being different? Anyone who isn't different from anyone else makes the human race look bad. It basically implies that humans have no individuality. And what the hell are all of you people doing on this board anyway if you so claim to have lives just as much as you claim that I don't? Everything is an activity, you can't judge. I skate, trick, b-boy, rock-climb, DJ, write music, play guitar and piano and drums, mountain bike on a regular. Like a lot of you, I also play games, watch movies, and go on the internet, just like all of you. I socialize, flirt (like hell), crack jokes and tease girls as much as the next guy. What makes me any different? The fact that I do everything for myself and nobody else. Beyond that, I don't understand why any of you assumed I myself didn't party, drink, smoke or do drugs. For the record, I go to massives. The reason? I love the bass and I love electro house. What's wrong with finding a "magic pixie girl to frolic with?" For what reason do you find to speak so derogatory ? No, I haven't found a "magic pixie girl to frolic with," but finding one sure would be a hell of a lot better than the average girl. And Mr. Silver, what made you assume I never had a girlfriend? Wouldn't it be more accurate to assume that I've had too many that were all too similar? Conforming, socially traditional, generic, crowd-followers, and non-individualistic? I won't lie, I've been in three serious relationships within the past five years, not counting anything uncertain flings inbetween, and you as well as I sure as hell know that three is a pretty damn big number for just five years; sure I was happy with them all in those moments, but the very reason why I'm alone now is precisely because I'm so different. I had to end each relationship simply because I could not see myself living as free-spirited as I wanted to be. I admit it, I'm not ashamed. I'm different, and I love who I am. All I was ever complaining about was the fact that there's so few people out there with similar mindsets. When push comes to shove, I'd choose me and my nature any day. I will always choose the "magical" the "fantastic" and the "extra-ordinary" over the norm. We got one life to live, and I'm continually on the lookout for someone who chooses to live life differently from what you see on a day-to-day basis. How can you look down on me at all for that? If anything, I pity any of you who don't strive for difference.