should i have lunch with my classmate? (8)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-05-10 00:35 ID:0ySOJA2l

so. here's my background. im a college junior student who has been dating my girlfriend for almost 2 years.

this semester. i met this girl in one of my class. we became quite close classmates.

the end of the semester is coming. most likely, i wont be seeing her anytime/anywhere after this semester. so i thought it'd be nice if i ask her for a lunch one day, maybe after our final. but what do you think? do you think its not necessary?

2 Name: Wonderfelt : 2010-05-10 02:37 ID:ZpE0+Q/+

its really not necessary but why do you want to invite "that" classmate to dinner .. if only the two of you will go to dinner isn't that called date .. ? you might think like "Its not like that, we will just eat outside" but still your girlfriend won't be delighted hearing that ... but if your girlfriend really does trust you .. and if better ask for permission to your girlfriend. Because its better if it comes from you and not from the mouth of other cause it might cause some doubts in her side ....

3 Name: OP : 2010-05-11 02:58 ID:0ySOJA2l

this is OP

hey thanks. its not dinner, just lunch.. but i guess you're right., maybe i should ask my girlfriend first, although she does trust me. i just dont want her to her about us eating out from someone else before me.

4 Name: nursing heart : 2010-05-11 07:55 ID:AQiPJwBa

correct! its always better to hear things personally than hearing it from others... you may not know some of what you hear were fabricated to their interests... keep it up OP!

5 Name: Wonderfelt : 2010-05-11 13:39 ID:WmeKWa7U

:D good luck to you .. hope it will turn out the way you want it to be .. if you need some advice on something else then just tell us ..

6 Name: nursing heart : 2010-05-11 14:20 ID:7C380Yv1

yup!yup! we'll be rooting for you! fight-o!

7 Name: OP : 2010-05-12 14:35 ID:0ySOJA2l

OP here

lmao. thanks guys! hahahhaha its not like im asking a girl out! but yeah.. my girlfriend said she's okay with it. but then again she was in (too) good mood. so...i'll ask her again sometime later

8 Name: Wonderfelt : 2010-05-14 12:34 ID:hvnvP5Iu

you never know what might happen next .. even if they say its "okay" its not necessarily fine sometimes ... and even if they say
its only a "dinner" then it might not be just a dinner ... and if all things were really just a simple as that ..
Then a persons status would only have been three ..

  1. Single
  2. In a Relationship
  3. Married

But because things cannot always go as you think and something might develop without you knowing then it might result in something called ...

4. It's complicated

lol ...
I've watched too many japanese dramas ...

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