if my boyfriend had done that, i would definitely want him telling me.
i would be a little upset at first, first of all, the fact of him going to a strip club is enough. i can give him a strip tease anyday. but if he cheated, of course i'd be angry but i'd let him explain himself because he deserves it.
but he also deserves a knee to the balls. it all really depends though.
but thats me, idk what your girl is like. you know her better than we do