She's Crazy About Me, but I'm Not About Her (3)

1 Name: OP!ftPf.M4w3U : 2010-10-05 13:51 ID:x/pIEFb0

Okay, having to type this out on my phone sucks but I'll make due.

I've been dating my current girlfriend for about two months now. She's not bad looking and I really do love her, but she's crazy about me. Not 'crazy' crazy, but she likes me so much she wants to get married. I told her I'm not ready for it and that while I do love her I don't know if I wanna marry her. She backs off for a while then starts to complain again.

For more background. I'm a 25 year old. Needy but hardly a shut in.
She's 20 and somewhat of a shut in.

2 Name: OP!ftPf.M4w3U : 2010-10-05 13:59 ID:x/pIEFb0

That's 'nerdy' not 'needy'. Autocorrect sucks. :-(

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-10-07 17:53 ID:vEKmFf6c

>two months now
>she wants to get married

Uhhh, unless you two have know each other for a very long time but have only just started dating and shes planning on like, a year long engagement, she is a plain stupid bitch. If my boyfriend said that to me after two months I would run for the hills.

I would tell her that planning to get married after two month of going out is extremely stupid. Not only are couples who rush into marriage something like 3 or 4 times more likely to get divorced, but right now you two have a contain of brain chemicals desinged to keep you together long enough to have a baby that won't wear off for AT LEAST another 10 months swirling around up there. Your true opinions of each other aren't going to emerge until then. Tell her that you absolutely aren't getting married yet, your position is not going to change, and that it's very rude and disrespectful of her to keep pushing the matter when you know her opinion and that she needs to stop.

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