I probably wouldn't be a virgin if I went to the dorms, but unfortunately, I went to a very difficult high school (there was an entrance exam), and as a result I ended up having to transfer into the university from a dorm-free community college and completely bypassed dorms.
There's nothing heroic about it. The way society is arranged, mating is mostly about female choice. Ignore that detail and it's called "rape". If left (or right) hands counted, I don't think anyone here would be a virgin.