What's virginty? http://www.scarleteen.com/politics/virginity.html
A very good page that I actually have to agree with.
I lost my virginity mentally years and years before I ever had sex, so physically "losing my virginity" really didn't feel special at all, since it was pretty much exactly what i knew it would be like. A year later though, the first time with second boyfriend, that felt so very special, and he pretty much had me "blushing like a virgin". :-p
Don't worry about not wanting to rush into sex. Do whatever feels natural to you. You're you, just because you're not like a horny nympho on fire doesn't mean your pace is wrong.