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BF needs advice w/ GF (28)

1 Name: Pete : 2006-01-04 02:14 ID:y21U+T2+

Hi guys, I really need some advice here. My girlfriend and I have been together for little over 2 months now and we've been progressing steadily ever since. Now when I first met her, she made it loud and clear that she vowed to never have sex b4 marriage and me being a good boyfriend, completely understood and agreed to this (even tho I did not follow the same rules). So again, we were doing very well, only having one very small argument over me being too nice to her sometimes. ^^;

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2 Name: BENOIST : 2006-01-04 02:20 ID:FEpHpFeU

lol. You actually listened to what she said and didn't cum? You could easily have blamed it on premature ejaculation.

3 Name: Pete : 2006-01-04 02:31 ID:y21U+T2+

Yea, I know but I'm trying to gain her trust and not be afraid of being close. I think that's what part of her problem is.

4 Name: SynthL0rd : 2006-01-04 02:39 ID:fc8zyGNG

So wait...YOU feel like a loser for her breaking her own promise?
Please..You're both human beings that have urges, don't beat yourself up, you're both guilty but it felt good didn't it?, that's her fault she broke the promise in my opinion.

5 Name: Pete : 2006-01-04 02:45 ID:y21U+T2+

Sigh... thank you SynthLord.

I do believe you have given me the slap to the face that I truly needed. Now, when I see her next time, I'll know what to say.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-04 03:54 ID:Heaven

Well don't say something that will make her feel like it's her fault. You guys both made the decision, you shouldn't regret it, but it's up to how comfortable you both feel on how to proceed in your relationship.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-04 21:51 ID:6PAXj4LI


If she easily breaks her own vows to herself like that and likes to be degraded, then she is a whore.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-05 01:31 ID:Heaven

Don't forget to tell us what you end up saying, and what she says.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-05 04:35 ID:l+0qC8L7

That's not true. You don't know why she made those vows. Perhaps she was sick of being used by shitty men, and this dude turned out to be awesome.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-05 11:06 ID:FHseolDZ

A lot of people vow to keep themselves before marriage for whatever reasons, religious or personal. I once wanted to save myself until marriage, but gave up shortly after high school because it just wasn't practical.

Have a talk with her about her feelings about it. Ask why she was keeping her virginity. Changing your mind is not a bad thing, as long as the reasons are right. It doesn't make sense to hold to a committment if you don't believe in it anymore.

11 Name: Pete : 2006-01-05 12:23 ID:y21U+T2+

Before I get into what happened last night, let me respond to some of the things that have been said.


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12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-05 16:44 ID:Heaven

> most other men would not have brought such a subject up in conversation

She's right, you're a fag ゜∀゜

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-05 23:42 ID:y21U+T2+

Don't mind him, he just says that becuase he's a 40yr old virgin. =P

14 Name: SynthL0rd : 2006-01-06 00:47 ID:fc8zyGNG

Nice work Pete, I'm glad she was so understanding and you had a better night... KITAAAAA!

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-06 01:36 ID:y21U+T2+

Thanks and you know, I yelled out the same exact thing driving back home from droping her off.

"KIIIIIITAAAAAAAAAAA!!!" The driver next to me probably thought I was on speed or something but I don't care. ^_^;

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-06 04:37 ID:YLUxuHja

Wow, an actual success story. Good job there!

17 Name: SR47 : 2006-01-06 07:44 ID:FSSw5F5e

キタ!!! 乀(゚ ∀゚)ノ


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18 Name: 10 : 2006-01-06 10:18 ID:FHseolDZ

Yay! Good job! Nice to hear things going right pete lol.

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-08 00:58 ID:Heaven


If she came multiple times the second time she had sex.

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20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-08 01:11 ID:ytbP+KGj

Glad to hear that things are turning out well for the both of you :)

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-08 04:04 ID:Heaven

So, uh, promises really don't mean anything after all, waking up your neighbors in the middle of the night is fine, and this is your happy ending? Congratulations.

If some idiot woke me up at 1 am, I don't care what kind of glorious love story goes with it, there would not be a happy fucking ending.

22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-08 06:31 ID:/SpSxBBd

I think >>9 was complimenting you~

>and this dude turned out to be awesome.

23 Name: SR47 : 2006-01-08 20:57 ID:FSSw5F5e


5. She's very sensitive.
6. None of our buisness.

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24 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-09 00:22 ID:Nsvv29yw

Neighbour Child: Mommy... are the people next door fighting?
Neighbour Mom: No, not exactly, dear. You see, when a mother and father love each other very much (ry

25 Name: SR47 : 2006-01-09 05:35 ID:Heaven


I just snarfed (damn you!) :p

26 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-09 08:40 ID:Heaven

>>I just snarfed

Mommy... is SR47 fighting?
No, not exactly, dear. You see, when an internet user loves himself very much...

27 Name: SR47 : 2006-01-09 23:18 ID:Heaven

Second definition from the top. Get your mind out of the gutter. :p

28 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-13 21:17 ID:AL/LI24P

I'm a girl and I came multiple times I had sex the second time.
The first time might count too, depending if you think orgasm via oral immediately followed by intercourse counts.