Hi guys, I really need some advice here. My girlfriend and I have been together for little over 2 months now and we've been progressing steadily ever since. Now when I first met her, she made it loud and clear that she vowed to never have sex b4 marriage and me being a good boyfriend, completely understood and agreed to this (even tho I did not follow the same rules). So again, we were doing very well, only having one very small argument over me being too nice to her sometimes. ^^;
lol. You actually listened to what she said and didn't cum? You could easily have blamed it on premature ejaculation.
Yea, I know but I'm trying to gain her trust and not be afraid of being close. I think that's what part of her problem is.
So wait...YOU feel like a loser for her breaking her own promise?
Please..You're both human beings that have urges, don't beat yourself up, you're both guilty but it felt good didn't it?, that's her fault she broke the promise in my opinion.
Sigh... thank you SynthLord.
I do believe you have given me the slap to the face that I truly needed. Now, when I see her next time, I'll know what to say.
Well don't say something that will make her feel like it's her fault. You guys both made the decision, you shouldn't regret it, but it's up to how comfortable you both feel on how to proceed in your relationship.
If she easily breaks her own vows to herself like that and likes to be degraded, then she is a whore.
Don't forget to tell us what you end up saying, and what she says.
That's not true. You don't know why she made those vows. Perhaps she was sick of being used by shitty men, and this dude turned out to be awesome.
A lot of people vow to keep themselves before marriage for whatever reasons, religious or personal. I once wanted to save myself until marriage, but gave up shortly after high school because it just wasn't practical.
Have a talk with her about her feelings about it. Ask why she was keeping her virginity. Changing your mind is not a bad thing, as long as the reasons are right. It doesn't make sense to hold to a committment if you don't believe in it anymore.
Before I get into what happened last night, let me respond to some of the things that have been said.
> most other men would not have brought such a subject up in conversation
She's right, you're a fag ゜∀゜
Don't mind him, he just says that becuase he's a 40yr old virgin. =P
Nice work Pete, I'm glad she was so understanding and you had a better night... KITAAAAA!
Thanks and you know, I yelled out the same exact thing driving back home from droping her off.
"KIIIIIITAAAAAAAAAAA!!!" The driver next to me probably thought I was on speed or something but I don't care. ^_^;
Wow, an actual success story. Good job there!
Yay! Good job! Nice to hear things going right pete lol.
If she came multiple times the second time she had sex.
Glad to hear that things are turning out well for the both of you :)
So, uh, promises really don't mean anything after all, waking up your neighbors in the middle of the night is fine, and this is your happy ending? Congratulations.
If some idiot woke me up at 1 am, I don't care what kind of glorious love story goes with it, there would not be a happy fucking ending.
Neighbour Child: Mommy... are the people next door fighting?
Neighbour Mom: No, not exactly, dear. You see, when a mother and father love each other very much (ry
>>I just snarfed
Mommy... is SR47 fighting?
No, not exactly, dear. You see, when an internet user loves himself very much...
Second definition from the top. Get your mind out of the gutter. :p