About a three years ago I met this girl and we became really good friends. We did stuff together and would just talk about nothing all of the time. I really enjoyed being around her and I wanted to pursue a more bf/gf like relationship. I think we both felt the same way but there was one problem: her boyfriend. I never really got along with him but he was always around her so I kinda had to deal with him (kinda selfish of me ^_^;). We kept drifting further and further apart untill finally we had almost no contact at all. That's how it's been for about two years. She broke up with the guy but we never really got back to the way it used to be. I would see her online and say hi or she would wave to me if she saw me in the hall ways or while I was waiting for a ride but that's about it.
First, stop. Relax. You sound like your waltzing towards the very thin line of obcession. Let's nip that one in the bud so your community doesn't wake up and find you on the front page of the local paper as a stalker.
Yep, just try to talk more next time you see her.
thank you, for that post
i'm not op but in a similar situation
i fell in love with the ex-girlfriend of a friend, but she wanted to to stay just friends. i couldn't really accept that but couldn't be without her either -> friendzone
>>8, I'm confused. So did you date or didn't you?
hmm no, not really. it was complicated...
we never kissed or did anything else remotely sexual, i only hugged her when she was crying because of her ex.
we hung out together, cooked, watched tv, went shoppin, etc. i basically saw her every single day of the week. kinda like a relationship i guess... (never had one)