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Lost in the land of love (19)

1 Name: the spi : 2006-01-11 09:17 ID:Z0Yup4nP

My best friend is a female who loves anime and video games as much as anybody. We talk about issues and we have a lot in common. We known eachother since the end of our high school and begging of our college. At one time I did tell her that I loved her, however she did not reply the same. She said she liked me but not loved me. We agreed not to go any further on that and we continued to be best friends. However I am going into the Navy and will ship out to boot camp in June 27. Time is running out on how we can spend time now and now I am not sure what to do , whether I should risk something or leave it as it is.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-11 09:33 ID:zC3vJgJF

What have you got to lose?

On one hand, friendships last forever, and if you solidify and hold on to that, it will always be there for when you come back on leave.

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3 Name: the spi : 2006-01-12 07:57 ID:Z0Yup4nP

TO be honest that reply is confusing me even more.

4 Name: 2 : 2006-01-12 09:20 ID:zC3vJgJF

Yeah I realize I kind of jumped around a bit.

Examine the situation and see if it really makes sense to be in a relationship with her. Otherwise keep her as your best friend.

5 Name: the spi : 2006-01-12 09:22 ID:Z0Yup4nP

ok now I understand that. Still I guess my geek side is holding me back to investigate. I barley got enough guts to tell her how I feel. I am not sure where we stand besides friends. BUt I guess I should just figure this out and sttle this once and for all.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-12 22:14 ID:KEGvQouz

Just talk her, 6 is right, she is your friend, she will understand you, and if she doesn't, well then you should reevaluate your friendship with her. Besides, why are you afraid, you are in the Navy.

7 Name: 6 : 2006-01-12 22:15 ID:KEGvQouz

WOW I can't count 2 is right now me who is 6

8 Name: the spi : 2006-01-13 01:05 ID:Z0Yup4nP

I am going in the navy. I am not in yet.

9 Name: 6 : 2006-01-13 01:54 ID:KEGvQouz

oops, well just do it before you leave, its sucks to live with "what might of been"

10 Name: the spi : 2006-01-13 23:22 ID:Z0Yup4nP

what might have been. Geez, I can feel the drama all over this. Damn my head hurts.

11 Name: 2 : 2006-01-14 01:42 ID:zC3vJgJF

I'm familiar with the whole "what might have been thing" just looks at the thread "found and lost love of my life"

12 Name: the spi : 2006-01-14 08:06 ID:Z0Yup4nP

yeah thats why it's making my head hurt more. I just got a case where my heart says one thing and my head says anthour, and they both have good cases. Which in my world is rare. So I am going threw a personal conflict whether the heart or the head is the thing I should listen too.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-14 08:48 ID:KEGvQouz

follow your heart, but listen to your head

14 Name: the spi : 2006-01-14 10:15 ID:Z0Yup4nP

thats the problem. They want to go in complety diffrent directions.

15 Name: 13 : 2006-01-15 00:08 ID:KEGvQouz

yeah, I know, I'm went through the same thing.

16 Name: 2 : 2006-01-15 08:50 ID:zC3vJgJF

You know what, follow your heart. Your head is not always right.

I bought a ticket overseas because I wanted to confirm something. My head tells me that may have been a stupid decision, but my heart knows it is right.

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17 Name: the spi : 2006-01-16 06:20 ID:Z0Yup4nP

thanks for the advice everyone.

18 Name: the spi : 2006-01-16 11:36 ID:Z0Yup4nP

there is one thing I want to say before this topic will disper in the mist of the internet. Love is something that other people will tell you to think, but love at the same time is something that youmake for myself. I was lead to love by others. But this , I want to tell her that I love her deeply, no matter how far I am away from her. I love her with all my heart and I will not stop until I let those sacred three letter sentence come out from my mouth to her ear's again.

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19 Name: 2 : 2006-01-16 19:43 ID:zC3vJgJF

Well put, your heart is in the right place and I want to see you happy.

Good luck.

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