So I've been chatting with some girl online, for quite some time now. It isn't taking a romantic thread, but it's pretty obvious that she's interested in me in some fashion.
She keeps using the classic female whinge. You know the deal... calling herself fat, and so forth. Half the time it's right, and half the time it's just used by women who want to act like all the others. You know the kind... I have this one friend, she's about the weight of a large cat and still complains that she's fat.
obviously the photo you sent her wasn't nekkid enough!
It could be that she's actually a man. I'm absolutely serious.
Hahahaha anything could happen on the net. Maybe he/she is trying to con you!!
... maybe you should get out and see what girls look like at once.
>>6 I really wasn't joking. Happens more often than you think.
Once a girl I met online eventually showed me a photo of herself and she was like 300 pounds : (
I never got into online relationships ever again.
I'm a girl, and I like having friends on the Internet... I don't care if they're cute or not... But the FIRST thing I wanna see it's their picture!!! I think that's right, see the face of the person you're talking with!
> She keeps using the classic female whinge. You know the deal... calling herself fat, and so forth. Half the time it's right, and half the time it's just used by women who want to act like all the others.
next time she calls herself fat, tell her you doubt that she really is fat and if she insists that she is (she probably will), ask her for a picture.
I hate seeing photos of people from the internet. It spoils it because it is not what you imagined them to be...
It is sort of a conondrum. Honestly, I was thinking of putting up my photo on a site. But being shy, I hesitated. In the end, I just put my baby picture in there. The reaction I got from that was, people thought I was cute...what the hell am I supposed to think now?
there be pedofiles ~_^
>She keeps using the classic female whinge. You know the deal... calling herself fat, and so forth. Half the time it's right, and half the time it's just used by women who want to act like all the others.
Actually, the reason girls who aren't fat do it is to lower your expectations for seeing the photo, so when you expect some huge fatty and you get someone average, it seems better then expecting a beauty queen and getting someone average.
People who claim to be fat usually are.
The right course of action is to tell them to shape up because noone likes ugly people, and break off all communication until they have become presentable enough that they have enough self-esteem to give out their picture freely.
...Since when do photos work as a guarantee for that people really do look like that?
I know plenty of people who give people fake photos if they're being pestered about it but don't want to break the aquanintance off. Those people are mainly girls who are overly paranoid regarding stalkers. Tina for instance (one of my irl friends) keeps using an image of some average, completely unremarkably looking girl as her "photo". She uses it as a test. If people stop talking to her because they get dissapointed at that "she" (the photo) doesn't look good enough, she's of the opinion that they can go to hell. She's fed up with shallow guys irl who just start talking with her because of her boobs and face. Can't blame her, though. Must suck hard to be a pretty gamer geek girl. The last guy she dated, an actual gamer, ditched her because he kept getting beaten in virtually all games by her, and he kept feeling so bloody insecure he kept accusing her for being unfaithful all the time (which she never was).