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I have lost interest in women (38)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-04 02:02 ID:S8dxAF70

Hello. I have lost interest in women. Mainly because my standards are too high. I used to think that I liked mean and bitchy women. Then I realized, that I really don't and that was a momentary fetish. What I REALLY like is dark, superficially gothic looking girls(nothing too far out, just dressed in all black with short page boy black hair) who are kind of waifish and look dark and bleak but aren't really. Like Hotaru or something. Realizing that

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-04 02:35 ID:nRZzEglr

Your standards.. really are way too high. There is nothing wrong with getting out of the game though or just slow playing it.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-04 02:44 ID:S8dxAF70

You know deep down...Deep deep down, I feel as though, that if I stuck to my guns that such a person may exist.

For now, I exit the game.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-04 04:05 ID:O/itoe/W

the game is hard, i'm thinking of giving up, its like im curesed to fail in every relationship, as for standards you should look at your self and look for girls that are at your standards, if ur just average then dont go for realy hot girls, thats imposiable.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-04 04:34 ID:1YQ4EWq3

Your standards aren't too high, they're too specialized. Even if this kind of girl existed in your life, there's no reason that she would like you, or that you would be compatible together.

Reading your post, it sounds like you've got a list of ideal characteristics that you're trying to match a real woman to. Of course you'll be disappointed when she doesn't meet your expectations.

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6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-04 04:45 ID:mCMkq/Pe

I am no one average. I am no one special or important. I mean I'm not a millionaire nor am I high in political office. But I am hardly average. I am fairly well to do. Much better than my peers. This is due to hard work and personal sacrifice. For this I want no Kudos. I don't necessarily want a "hot" girl. "hot" girls tend to be whores. 5 is right, my tastes are specialized. But I feel that if such a specialized person existed, she would like me on some level. I feel that life is full of disappointment. I am not lovelorn nor am I obsessive for female attention. It is just that I am tired of being bored and I am tired of hangers on and drama games. I want what I want. I like these traits that I find exotic. I like that dark innocence. The waifishness. The Kind heart covered in darkness. I feel it complements me. Or at least, pleases me. I am no one odd. At least I don't appear that way.

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-04 18:52 ID:f0eHFYzx

Quitting entirely sounds very harsh. It's so 'final'...Anyway, I believe we are both in the same place right now. Too tired with 'blah' relationships. And the prospect of starting over, doing the same song and dance, seems daunting. However, I still won't quit cold turkey like that. I don't think you really want a highly specialized girl. I think what you really want is romance. People would probably think you're crazy and tell you that it just doesn't happen, but there's nothing wrong with trying.

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8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-04 18:53 ID:sx30XT4k

>>1 Maybe you pretend high quality, but you don't give back the quality you want... :S

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-04 19:38 ID:hU7Kkf/9

ur that guy from the other thread arent you? you be messed

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-05 03:40 ID:w1X3V9wj

Let me put it this way buddy. When it comes to quality, I am like walking talking Sig Sauer. I am so quality you'd swear I was Swiss. I'm not perfect and not without my problems. But I stand by my record. Any woman or man who deems me not of a high standard of quality, probably isn't worthy of my attention anyways.

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11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-05 04:02 ID:ASWenRIm

It sounds like you are not really sure as to what kind of woman you want. So, maybe you should experience more women before deciding to give up.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-05 04:49 ID:w1X3V9wj

No, because that would make me not unlike a slut. I know plenty of women and don't like them. Perhaps give up is a harsh word after all...

I'll just call it an extended hiatus. I don't want a slave or a yesman...just someone who is an individual who looks kind of like what I enjoy and wont try to change my lifestyle.

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13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-05 04:57 ID:Heaven

I'm sleepy, forgive me if I ramble or leave trains of thought unfinished.

You say you want a waifish goth type who's also demure(and presumably doesn't cut herself). Your best chance of finding one is to sift through as many as possible. The easiest way to do this is to find them where they gather in groups, like goth/fetish nightclubs, vampire roleplays, and Denny's. The only way you're going to get into these places is by dressing the part. Therefore if you really want this, you're going to have to become the thing you're looking for.

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14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-05 05:01 ID:w1X3V9wj

Thank you for the post.
I should have mentioned, no cutters. I don't dress goth, but rather casual in my off time. Actually my tastes won't change on this issue. That last thread was just me kind of fantasizing about being commandeered by a mean woman, but I really like waifs. Only I don't want to control them, I want to trust them. And I said SUPERFICIAL goth style RPers, Nightclubbers, and anyone who eats at Denny's is a nonstarter.

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-05 05:02 ID:w1X3V9wj

Oh yeah and nobody under 19 or over 30...

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-05 07:46 ID:ASWenRIm

I could understand a loss of interest in the opposite sex. It becomes boring after a while with the same types of people and nobody who particularly stands out. Being constantly let down gets really tired. From across the room they were perfect, but after they speak...their beauty quickly withers away.

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17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-05 16:53 ID:OmmKB60T

>>10 Buddy? WTF?

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-06 00:41 ID:Oash5CGE

Wow, you kind of summed up how I feel. Thanks man.


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19 Name: 16 : 2006-03-06 04:00 ID:ASWenRIm

I am not man, but you are welcome.

The thing is, when you find the ideal person that you have always wanted they turn out to be either a disappointment or a bore. A disappointment because you learn that maybe that was not what you wanted and a bore because there is nothing to really uncover.

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-06 05:43 ID:TfB9QsIX


Shenanigans, no girls on the internet. If you really, really are a girl: Carry on.

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21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-06 08:03 ID:ASWenRIm

Why not find a woman who can be both types of women? A Woman of better quality but can still get dirty. A woman who can be whatever you want her to be. There are woman who need men to shape them into something because they are so eager to be the perfect girlfriend.

22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-06 17:59 ID:i6Se++Xy


Hmm...I never thought of it like that. I think that this is probably the best solution.

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23 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-06 22:50 ID:Heaven

To the guy who started this thread and wasted his time typing out his fantasies, WAKE UP AND LIFE IN THE REAL WORLD. Seriously, why do you think a nobody like you would be desirable by a woman like in your fantasy?

24 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-07 00:51 ID:D5OAuJ6C

Thank you for your post.

It's because I'm bored with everything...I didn't waste my time, I just put out a little manifesto there...just wearing the testes on the outside thank you very much. I live in the real world, and it is what it is.

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25 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-29 08:28 ID:Heaven


Aw, he's so cute. He thinks he's better than everyone else. Like that other post said, wake up and live in reality. You will NOT be meeting a woman who lives up to your EXACT expectations. Get over yourself.

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26 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-16 18:56 ID:hZUyqqy7


But girls secretly want security and with his degree of confidence what makes you think she wouldn't like him?

27 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-16 19:47 ID:6lZnAIfu


Yes I'm sure girls who are stupid enough to mistake arrogance for confidence is the best he could ever hope for.

28 Name: frigid onanoko : 2006-07-16 20:56 ID:ci0UxpWE

I thought Ullrich had given up on women like before he turn 16... corruption and lack of perfection were reasons I think

29 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-16 21:54 ID:pthdanc5

If you're happy with yourself, I don't see why you need a significant other. If you're not happy with yourself, looking for happiness in a significant other will only end in failure.

30 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-21 14:00 ID:Ws6UACaI


Then why bother looking to begin with?

31 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-21 14:43 ID:ci0UxpWE

>>30 because until you've had a few serious relationships, you have no right to know if your happines with yourself exceeds the possible spoils of having a partner.

I mean, like, dûh!! \(@_@\)

32 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-21 18:09 ID:Ws6UACaI


But if >>29 is right, and those happy with themselves don't need relationships, and those not happy with themselves don't deserve relationships, then why would a person have any incentive whatsoever to even begin working on those "few serious relationships"? Unless you're implying that there's a third category of people that >>29 neglected to define.

33 Name: Troll : 2006-07-27 05:11 ID:VM+RnZ7s

>>1, there are limits dude, stop being idealistic. Maybe you'll find your match in the most unexpected way someday.

34 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-29 13:17 ID:4Gb7hta6

Thanks, I needed a good laugh.

35 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-29 13:18 ID:4Gb7hta6

ps. I was initially expecting this to be a "coming-out-of-the-closet" thread.

36 Name: Troll!!6MhJ5+eg : 2006-07-30 02:44 ID:VM+RnZ7s

Don't give up yet. How about "training a woman from childhood"? Hrrrhrrhrr! Arrange to marry someone else's daughter (of course she's gotta be young, after all, it's hard to teach old dogs new tricks), train her to be your ideal girl and when the right time comes. BAM! Young and ideal bride, fresssssh! Nyahahahahaha!

37 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-31 05:21 ID:dDF+P0SB

No actually I resolved this not too terribly long ago by getting a Hotaru Realdoll.

38 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-01 20:12 ID:7f13SaJG

Become an asexual doctor because without sex on your mind you can accomplish quintuple bypass surgeries while browsing /b/ and writing a game of Monopoly in brainfuck. AND blowing cigarette smoke into nurses faces.