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How should i approach her (8)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-07 19:08 ID:uaCAXudw

There is a girl in my class that i think likes me , and recently i have started having some feeling for her.
It's likte it's building up more and more , not like when i suddenly find somone attractive.
So i have tried to get private to i can talk to her , but only once i got the chance , and then i was to embarrassed not tell her.

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2 Name: Mr. Doe : 2006-03-07 22:35 ID:yssrW8pA

no idea but im intrested enuff to keep this front queued.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-07 23:08 ID:Heaven

There's no way of absolutely ensuring secrecy once you've told her. How well do you know her? Is she a gossip? Would she talk about this with her friends for a laugh? If you're going to say it, say it honestly and be prepared for the risk. Because it's always a risk to put your heart out like that.

4 Name: Jstars : 2006-03-08 07:12 ID:QWVpG9z6

I agree it's a good idea to get her alone, best thing I can suggest is try timing it so you both leave the class at the same time, or if she gets up to leave for the restroom or something, maybe try and excuse yourself as well so you can run into her outside of class (this of course depends on what level of school you're in).

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-09 12:01 ID:Heaven

There is nothing quite so romantic chatting up a girl when she's up to her eyeballs on the way to the restroom. She'll always look back on your first conversation with such fondness!

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-09 13:45 ID:Heaven

haha

7 Name: Jstars : 2006-03-12 03:01 ID:QWVpG9z6

you catch her on the way back you see. I figured common sense would dictate this but I see I was wrong.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-13 05:19 ID:wPDljLD5

Girls aren't that evil. You shouldn't live in fear that they will tell the whole school or something horrific. They have feelings too, and consider others as well.

How about catching her on her way out of school? Or by her locker during lunch hour or breaks? I know it would be extremely hard to talk to her, but you'll be glad you did. You will regret it if you don't. You don't have to confess to her as soon as you see her, how about building a friendship first? When she's sitting alone in class, say "Hello, how are you doing?" and introduce yourself. If you think she likes you, she will be warm to you. She may like you and be just as nervous as you are. Have you ever spoken to her before?