I'd really appreciate it if you guys can give me good advice, and not just stupid dissing about how naive or stupid I am.
I want to marry a japanese guy. I know I am probably being really one-dimensional and naive, but that is what I want.
Well, if you are truly serious you should probably learn the language. That would be a big step towards your goal. And if that goes to hell, move to Canada. We got lots to share.
But do you guys think that I am just being really stupid and maybe not thinking really rationally to think that?
nah^^ everyone is interested in different things I guess
I guess it depends on your reasons...
oh and btw where do you live (don't have to tell us where) but I mean like country or continent so at least we can help you more
I live in the US.
even though it's not really for dating
Hawaii...more asians in the state than any other state in the US.
how old are r u btw
Um... Can I ask why you want to marry a Japanese Man? It doesn't sound like your looking for love... So?
Have you thought about going on the JET program? You can become a teacher in Japan and that way you can meet lots of different Japanese men in one go and get paid to do it!
How many Japanese men have you actually met? It is also foolish to marry someone because of their race. It is more offensive to the person than flattering.
Japanese men are afraid of foreign women. They like the docile Japanese women. Also your idea is pretty dumb. But don't let that stop you ('-')b
>>1 japanese men are pretty coward and domestic
and that's true good ones are taken, especially in the states
also not many of us understand english
i recommend you to look for some quality american guy
depends if you are going for the japanese mentality or just a japanese person there is alot of open japanese people in Canada XD
and well actually some japanese likes to go for foreign women (note the word "some") they think its like a rare prize or something lol hmm you know... with the western fasination thing... so who knows try your luck I guess^^
I'm from Poland and I know one girl that was studying japanese culture. She had her trip to japan and she came back with japanese husband. Now they are publishing mangas in my country.
I know i can come across as being shallow, but I like to think that like some people may want their boyfriend to be taller than them, or have a great smile, or are caring, I just have the criteria of them being Japanese. I mean, I really don't see anything wrong with that...
Oh, and btw I am Chinese.
I am curious, what do you think of as being the stereotype japanese male that you wish to marry? Hmm?
Can't blame you though, people have different preferences. I prefer gamer geeks, I later hooked up with a gamer geek. However, naturally that isn't the sole reason for why. But the positive things i associate with gamer geeks were prerequisits for me to be able to start finding him suitable to start a relationship with. That wasn't the ultimate reason for why.