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how do I talk to women? (11)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-04 00:03 ID:S4i0YEC1

Okay first a little background. I consider myself to be a fairly good looking guy. I enjoy working out, jogging, weight building, etc. and I like to dress well too. My problem is that I'm also a bit of a closet geek. I LOVE sci fi, anime, video games, astronomy, all that crap. However I completely understand that 99% of women hate that stuff, so I know that when I have caught a woman's interest and we begin to talk, I do not bring up the topic of Battlestar Galactica or something. However my problem is... I have nothing else to talk about! I don't know a thing about music, reality TV, night clubs, and other things that girls enjoy... so I end up not being much for conversations on dates or regular occasions and I turn out to be a boring guy.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-04 00:03 ID:S4i0YEC1

Oh and I forgot to mention, I'm 24.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-04 00:39 ID:kuBDkOEQ

This is simple....

Ask a woman what she thinks and you'll never shut her the hell up.

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4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-04 01:52 ID:4vhqxUbq


Date another geek? That's how my relatioships always go. Just dated the other geek who had the same interests as I did. Then again, I'm female and its easier to find a male geek than it is for a male geek to find a free female geek.

5 Name: Fisher!3GqYIJ3Obs : 2006-04-04 02:06 ID:iJ2wA7a/

CanĀ“t agree with you more. I have none of those things and here I am 20years old and no girlfriend, but Im not a virgin (thats a other story wink)

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-06 10:20 ID:sRXyWocS


If you're on a date and can't find something to talk to her about, it was never going to be much of a relationship anyway. Why not just talk about what you're interested in? If she's down with that, awesome; if she's not, it wouldn't have worked out anyway. There's no good reason to not talk about stuff you're into because she "might not like it" -- isn't the whole point of this exercise to find some common ground? You can't possibly start finding common without revealing something about yourself.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-07 08:41 ID:8uOtND1C


Three simple rules:

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8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-07 17:03 ID:e1dhXVMn

7 has the right idea...

I'm a crazy sonuvabitch who is often upfront about my hardcore right wing agenda, antisocialism, nihilism, and disdain for the world in general. Plus, I don't hide the fact that I absolutely adore Hotaru.

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9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-08 07:34 ID:wUj5yqy8

>I have nothing else to talk about! I don't know a thing about music, reality TV, night clubs, and other things that girls enjoy...

So study the things that girls enjoy. Read about the popular TV shows to at least be aware of the storylines and characters. Listen to random songs until you find something you can say you like. Pick up your newspaper's nightlife section and see what the well known clubs and restaurants are.

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10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-08 13:50 ID:7KFRaBui

true dat, watch things that prepubescent girls watch, like one tree hill or the OC, HAH

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-01 05:09 ID:kdB1FDC0

Hi, there, i'm female. Okay, unless you're just looking for something pretty to hump, you should look for girls with similar interests. That way, you wll have something to talk about. Be CONFIDENT. If you do something stupid, rude, or disturbing, be the first one to point out the fact, with a laugh, of course. And, for the record, plenty of girls like anime, and lots of them them find astronomy to be romantic.