Hello fellow anon, I've posted here before. This girl I met a month ago is kind of getting on my nerves. Why? Damn friendzone, but then, not 100%....very confusing it is.
Before and after our first date, when we were talking, she kept dropping hint after hint that she wanted us to stick together, and I was all like "Yeah, sounds great" and was really happy. But this was in conflict with one of her original statements when we first met, that she wasn't really looking for a relationship. I kept that in the back of my mind, but she still kept hinting so I went with it. Then she drops the bomb that although we are dating, she can't give me a relationship. It took a lot of self control to not say "WHAT THE FUCK BITCH? You misled me greatly with our earlier conversations". But I'm a rational man and realized the error was mine, so I'm just kind of going with it.
As you can tell, I'm in the Friendzone. But dammit, where the hell am I exactly? She was dating two other guys when she met me (shes not loose, shes not giving them relationsips either). She broke that news to me thinking I'd be angry, but I wasn't because I'm a rational person who realized that we weren't close enough for it to matter. Exclusivity is something you reach much further down the dating road. Long story short: she was dating 3 guys, now shes only dating one guy, me. But she doesn't want a relationship, she got burned by her first one. Are we friends? More than friends? Or is she just using me in the fucked up way women like to, because they think its possible to be just friends with guys? Sorry, I'm a little bent out of shape about this, its been bugging me for a while and I finally got to get it off my chest. Thanks -電気男