background: i was a poorly-dressed, long-haired basement-dwelling geek virgin.. but everything changed 6 months ago. I got up, moved out, invested in new clothes, and started doing social things like going to bars. Well, not everything changed: I'm still a virgin.
Have you tried praying to Odin? That's what I always do.
Well lucky you. But play it safe, if you want a relationship with any of them you'll have to let the other two know whats up, and if you explain it to them carefully, you might get off okay. But if thats not your thing, might as well live it up and bone all three of them. Be careful on #3 though. I too am a tutor at my university, some pretty fine honeys come in and although I help them, my lack of good looks and professional attitude keeps me out of trouble. I had to go through a bunch of sexual harassment training and shit, but if its off campus its prolly okay. Good luck dude, I can only hope that I can be as lucky as you some day.
Hit them all for the experience. If you find out that you like any of them later just take it from there.
can i have the ones you dont play with?
if this is true there here is what you do.
pick the one with the largest breast.
okay im alittle skeptical of this but if it is true:
for 1, as soon as you have sex, things will be different, she may become attached to you and want a relationship, so becareful.
Yeah.. my uni is deadly serious about sexual harassment on the job. One of my coworkers wrote "Hobbies: Your office or mine?" in his LDAP entry and when HR found out, both he and my boss were sent through sexual harassment training. It had something to do with my boss "allowing" my coworker to have that entry in the directory, even though my boss has no control over our entries.
if there's one with only one breast, I don't care how large it is, I'd be definitely picking one of the other two.
Bro, your destiny plays with you and -in a few days- gave you 3 girls. I think, if do you have to learn how make 'sex', you could search a girl who have most sex experiences. If she don't like you -or you don't like her- then you would search to another who have some practice. I not recomended a timid girl, because, she is virgin. And thinking about it, you virgin, she virgin, two virgins in the world... so sad, orz. It would be better if you have some experiences before you go out with a timid girl. It would be better for her too.
Okay guys seriously I have to say the a lot of the advice given to you from before is sorta shaky/ it could get you in spot you might not want to go...
I think you shouldn't try to hit on them all since that can only spell death in the long run, try to pick one
"I got up, moved out, invested in new clothes, started wearing dockers and button down shirts instead of blue jeans and tshirts, and cut my beard and hair short. I wonder how many other people could score dates by simply wearing better clothes?"
ya safest bet is go for #1 all the way relationshipwise
Stick with #1! Don't touch #2 with a ten foot clown pole.
I personaly would stay with one. I beleive you should go with the one you like the most. If you want to go with all three think of the consequences if any of the others found out. Just listen to your heart.
I agree with what a lot of the guys are saying. It's either 1 or 3. Personally I'd go for 1 just because I love the idea of falling in love with my friend - what could be better? Well, not to say that #3 isn't a great gal, but, well, I guess it depends on how you feel about #1. You did ask her for sex so maybe you're somewhat attracted? On the other hand, I'd rethink about this sex thing. If things do hit off with #1 then the sex will be that much better, right?
3. Put it in!
Go out in on a date with each of them, have sex with #1, talk about #2's problems and "comfort her" if needed, and "go out" with #3.
Be cool and enjoy. You'll figure out which one to choose. Since sex is not everything, and none of them you have a relationship yet, it doesn't matter if u indulge in all three of them. Make sure you and your chosen partner talk it over and draw a clear line when your relationship takes a step into a couple.
#1 is too needy. Take it slow with her, be her friend. Chances are she'll get into relationship with someone else which won't last,
she's too busy/overly cautious to date, so you can buy time
How about an update?
As for my take, #2 sounds like the kind of woman you need to stay away from. If she NEEDS it immediatly after breaking up then she obviously didn't value her last BF and won't value you either.
I'd go with #1. She seems nice in comparison to what you've told us about the others.
I think, if you're a virgin, you're going about this the wrong way. If you're interested in #1, go out with her, but definitely don't push for the sex right away if you want a relationship, and it sounds like she might want one enough to put out, but it's still... don't rush into it just because you haven't had it. You go out with her, it will happen.
dicks out for Harambe