background: i was a poorly-dressed, long-haired basement-dwelling geek virgin.. but everything changed 6 months ago. I got up, moved out, invested in new clothes, and started doing social things like going to bars. Well, not everything changed: I'm still a virgin.
ya safest bet is go for #1 all the way relationshipwise
Stick with #1! Don't touch #2 with a ten foot clown pole.
I personaly would stay with one. I beleive you should go with the one you like the most. If you want to go with all three think of the consequences if any of the others found out. Just listen to your heart.
I agree with what a lot of the guys are saying. It's either 1 or 3. Personally I'd go for 1 just because I love the idea of falling in love with my friend - what could be better? Well, not to say that #3 isn't a great gal, but, well, I guess it depends on how you feel about #1. You did ask her for sex so maybe you're somewhat attracted? On the other hand, I'd rethink about this sex thing. If things do hit off with #1 then the sex will be that much better, right?
3. Put it in!
Go out in on a date with each of them, have sex with #1, talk about #2's problems and "comfort her" if needed, and "go out" with #3.
Be cool and enjoy. You'll figure out which one to choose. Since sex is not everything, and none of them you have a relationship yet, it doesn't matter if u indulge in all three of them. Make sure you and your chosen partner talk it over and draw a clear line when your relationship takes a step into a couple.
#1 is too needy. Take it slow with her, be her friend. Chances are she'll get into relationship with someone else which won't last,
she's too busy/overly cautious to date, so you can buy time
How about an update?
As for my take, #2 sounds like the kind of woman you need to stay away from. If she NEEDS it immediatly after breaking up then she obviously didn't value her last BF and won't value you either.
I'd go with #1. She seems nice in comparison to what you've told us about the others.
I think, if you're a virgin, you're going about this the wrong way. If you're interested in #1, go out with her, but definitely don't push for the sex right away if you want a relationship, and it sounds like she might want one enough to put out, but it's still... don't rush into it just because you haven't had it. You go out with her, it will happen.
dicks out for Harambe