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i don't know what to do!!!!!!!!! :'( (39)

1 Name: the idiot : 2006-04-19 05:44 ID:3y05L5j2

Okay. I'm 15, and I think i like this guy. We've been friend's for ages, and i confide in him alot about things i wouldn't tell my friends. anyway, one day we were talking on MSN and he told me realy unexpectadly that he had a crush on me. I was really...REALLY stupid, and i told him i'll let him ponder on "that". OTZ. I know. kill me now. anyway recently my friends are all tellingme that i should go out with him, or at least tell him how i feel, but i'm scared that we'll lose our friendship..and that's helped me get through alot.

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2 Name: shmeh : 2006-04-19 06:52 ID:3y05L5j2

just go on. get him.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-19 07:03 ID:a3Y0TTp3


Wait five years. If you still feel the same way then go for it.

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4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-19 07:56 ID:9eLpCcEm

Go for him, if you find him so helpful and a great friend then why not. Anyways even if you did break up in the future I'm sure you could still keep your friendship. I say go for it! ^_^

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-19 10:14 ID:Heaven


6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-19 20:52 ID:Heaven

Arrange a one on one meetup and get comfortable with him. When you're both relaxed, start rubbing his crotch. It will all come to you naturally from that point. And don't forget the condoms

7 Name: shmeh : 2006-04-20 01:22 ID:7w0FXW/G



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8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-20 03:52 ID:k82YMXzH

Talk to him about it, no really, you should and also take it slow.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-20 05:51 ID:Heaven

Don't forget to give us the details.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-20 08:36 ID:OjYUGBa0

You weren't stupid; you just weren't prepared yet.

Well, so long as you havn't rejected him; I am sure he's still waiting for you. But as others said, don't rush it; or you might regret it later. In any case, I wish you luck.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-20 09:38 ID:GEHcTg2+


how long ago did he tell you he had a crush on you? If it's not that long ago and you like him back, GO FOR IT! you'd only regret it if you didn't. don't forget to give us more details on how it progresses!!!

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-20 22:41 ID:Heaven

A little too old to be unexperienced, I know. But if she starts now she'll catch up in no-time

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-21 20:20 ID:zexAAS8o

as a general rule, you have a 2 week window to respond. if you do not say something by the end of two weeks, he will think he said/did something wrong and withdraw from your friendship. you lose, game over. no continues available.

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14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-24 07:11 ID:gMc9KUvd

he told you he had a crush on you? :|

in any case, if it has been a long time ago...:S

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15 Name: the idiot : 2006-04-24 07:14 ID:gMc9KUvd

details? :| no>.........

well he's like........the same age, only child, single-sex high-class school.....:| i don't know how much I can say...

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16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-24 08:08 ID:HIJ4rrDt

Forget MSN, talk to him in RL

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-25 01:03 ID:Heaven

>details? :| no

You're on the internet! We want to live your experiences vicariously!

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18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-26 17:29 ID:2j+Z0bVa


i agree

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-26 20:46 ID:VApci8xm

April 19 + 2 weeks = May 3rd. You're running out of time.

20 Name: the idiot : 2006-04-27 11:51 ID:lZED4uVA

lol. this was like last year.........

anyway okay? Details? ummmm. i need questions!!!!!! +.+

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21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-27 22:18 ID:TvXoAJBt

last year? well then, too late, you've already lost.

22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-27 22:26 ID:ODR/QYKT

>lol. this was like last year.........

are you fucking serious!?!? you are an idiot.

23 Name: the idiot : 2006-04-28 06:20 ID:ByhnF782

X| exactly....

24 Name: the idiot : 2006-04-28 06:20 ID:ByhnF782

X| exactly....

25 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-28 06:44 ID:Heaven


"single-sex high-class school"

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26 Name: the spi : 2006-04-28 07:04 ID:WiqZUkDw

that would be weird if if was some gay romance in a conservative school. Sounds like some shoenen-ai for some reason.

27 Name: the idiot : 2006-04-29 10:24 ID:bDydNDsH

NO. I go to an all-girls. He goes to an all-guys.

x_X" ummmmm........ we met through a friend's reunion. I just turned up becuase i had nothing better to do. We meet some fridays.

28 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-30 01:56 ID:Jjm4EhnO


>He goes to an all-guys.
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29 Name: the idiot : 2006-04-30 05:10 ID:LbMreNaQ

>How close do you two get when together?

not very. depends how close close is. we're usually walking along the road or something, and sometimes there's another friend there so..

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30 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-30 05:14 ID:Jjm4EhnO

I meant more in an emotional/personality way. How intimate can you get when you talk? What interests do you share?

31 Name: the idiot : 2006-05-03 11:16 ID:XuzuzaUQ

>I meant in an emotional/personality way.

oops sorry, yes i guess what i like.
We can get very intimate...NOT in a sexual way or anything, but if we feel like it we can talk about...well anything.

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32 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-03 20:30 ID:9eLpCcEm

Holy crap that story even made me sad. Despite how horrible that is its even worse that she is Japanese. Japanese families would get SOOO upset. Oh wow.

33 Name: senpai : 2006-05-03 21:17 ID:9PIEwkrb

you have to figure out what kind of guy he is and what he's looking for in a relationship -- If it's purely sexual attraction I think that your friendship will be more at risk, but if you are turned on by him physically and the fact that he's your good friend, I think that if the relationship turns sour, then you'll both be able to handle it okay.

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34 Name: the idiot : 2006-05-07 00:11 ID:5ZYfrAFJ

Thanks everyone....

:D well the deal was with ma friends that i tell him in the next month, and I'll keep you all posted on what happens.

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35 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-07 08:23 ID:S6rMNcQv

When you read this will be "within the next month". Do it then (now).

36 Name: similarity : 2006-05-21 03:53 ID:6mcMt/3+

same situation here. Except that he told me a week ago, not...a year. Anyway how would you recommend i slip "i like you too" into a conversation?

37 Name: Mireille guy : 2006-05-22 02:50 ID:w1rtQR8u

the idiot:
I hope you do well with this guy. Make time be in your side, not against you. If you tell him, then all do is wait and time is on your side. If you don't say anything, time is against you, and more time is lost. Be careful when harboring feelings for a long time. It's not good, although women can deal with a love for decades, men can't, (I'm serious).

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38 Name: Mireille guy : 2006-05-22 02:53 ID:w1rtQR8u

btw, similarity. If he says "what?"
answer, "[the same sentence goes here], and I like you too."
repeat process as many times as needed

39 Name: similarity : 2006-05-22 11:47 ID:6mcMt/3+

thanks alot. I used it and it worked :D we're going out now. thank you all for your support, and to the idiot, hopefully your situation will work out for you too.