Hey, Love and Romance board, it's been a while since I'd posted. I see you guys are still completely on-topic, that's good.
I'm feeling pretty down now, having cried like hell a few hours ago. My life's so damn complicated it makes anime look boring sometimes.
She sat in the car and comforted me the whole time. I'd always wondered why she seemed to contradictory all the time, saying she wanted to have my kids one day and then going back to that guy the next. She said that I'm the most influencial person in her life, and her best friend, and that she loves me. She pretty much said just about every thing I'd ever wanted, except that we could be together.
I enjoyed this story.
Ass or crotch? I don't know. It is a difficult question.
mate, it doesn't sound stupid. why can't she break up with him??
But seriously, how can she be The Smartest Girl In The Universe if she keeps going with a fucking idiot like that? I mean, heck; if you don't like someone, then don't stay with them.
She's only together with him because he's a huge, strong guy? Holy fuck, that is weak. Too weak. She's so scared that she lets him fuck her and call her his? And then she's cheating on him with you? Whore. Ok, even if this boyfriend of hers proved to be a dickhead, that gives her no valid reason to cheat on him. You're a bastard too, doing things to another guy's girl. If she does such things while together with him, why wouldn't she do it again if you two actually got together?
Sounds like this guy needs an ass whooping to kill his mean streak. And you may find yourself needing some self defense skills, so I'd kinda recommend building up and maybe doing some martial arts, since from what you said this guy would probably give you an ass whooping if you ever met him. You're in dangerous waters, but I kinda agree with 5, sounds like a slut who can't make up her mind. You could be mean but forceful and make her give you a valid reason why shes with him, and if its something you can do, then do it.
We are all but lines in the sand.....
It does not matter if we live or die...
It seems that I'm not the only one who feels a majority of the best women end up with the worst guys.
And the best guys with the worst women :/
I don't think you're a fool for holding out for her. You're in love right? If you love someone, you'll do anything for em, as hard as it is.
I don't think what she is doing with you is fair. I don't think her behavior around you is right. And unfortunately, unless you stand up for yourself, you will never have a true relationship with her because she knows you wont press it because of this "boyfriend."
You're obviously a complete stranger and I clearly have never met either you or the girl in question. Of this we can all be ABSOLUTELY certain.
But just from the point of view of a spectator that has - once again - definitely never met either one of you and have clearly just heard about this for the first time ever, I'd like to say a few things, if I may.
she doesn't sound like the faithful sort. why would you go out with someone that dates with more than one person? shouldn't she either break up with the other guy or you? seems like she's getting a lot more out of this 3 way thing than either you or the boyfriend.
>>12, of course I know you. You've been saying stupid things on DQN recently, you nononymous.
God, you guys make a lot of sense from a whole lot of different directions, you know? It's beautiful, which is why it's called the L&R board.
Well, I try. Unfortunately, the girl I like got pissed at me and won't talk to me anymore, and is instead trying to get something out of my friend, who is traditionally the nice guy who listens to everyone's problems. He's got a major headache from all that and is mostly trying to ignore it.
She almost sounds as if she's searching for affirmation of her worth beyond her probably ignoring and bossy boyfriend that treats her like her property. Your story sounds a lot like something a friend of mine went through last year though. He tried to get her to dump her boyfriend, but she was clingy and felt the safest situation was the one she already was in, so his appeals to make her venture into uncharted waters scared her and made her cling even more to the semi-abusive relationship with her boyfriend, and in the end ditched my friend as his constant desire for change in her situation irked her. Any significant change scared her too much, she didn't think she'd be strong enough to handle things if they went awry.
Yeah, >>17, it's not exactly a new situation. The best thing your friend could've done was continually reinforce the fact that he'd be there for her no matter what. Stuff like that doesn't work for me, though, since no matter what I do from here on I'm pretty much doomed to get yelled at every other day by this girl for a bunch of made-up reasons.
She definitely seems to not know be able to decide what she wants, and probably fears that her life would be worse if she dared to do something that she isn't a part of familiar habit already.
*that she doesn't have as a part of familiar habit already.
>>18 Perhaps you should point out her contradictory behaviour, the things she says, and point out that ultimately she is the one who decides what's going to happen? Perhapse you should look up information online on how to deal with people in an abusive relationship? Not that he probably beats her, but she definitely seems mentally abused. Why does she think it's okay to be treated like that? Did she have a difficult upbringing?
I'm bored every day.
is there interesting things?
Hi. First of all, Jane, you're a dick. Shut up.
Second of all, if the two of you don't resolve this, >>1, I might just end up doing something drastic about it in order to keep this viscious circle from continuing. And you know that when I say it's drastic...
dicks out for Harambe