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What should I do? (28)


1 Name: K-Man : 2006-05-20 04:38 ID:/uwsBYwD

Hi everyone
Here is the story. I like this girl (lets call her jackie) along time ago (elementary school) alot but I was known as a cry baby because I always cried so I think she might have a bad impression of me. Anyways after a couple years a friend brought up her name and I thought I probably wound't even like her anymore. Then this year in high school I was doing some work and a girl came over to me and said "hey, it's jackie from elementary school". For a couple seconds i didn't know who she was because she is now using a shorted version of her name. So I was totally shoked and my heart was beating like crazy, and i realized I did like her like i used to. So being shy like i am around girls I like I said "oh, hey". I didn't think I did too well there she just smiled and went to meet her friends. I saw her a couple of other times and said "hey" but nothing else much. All this happened about 3 months ago so it might be too late. I haven't had any classes with her and don't really have a way of talking to her without just going up to her out of the blue. So i was wondering what should I do I really like her and want to be atleast friends any sugjestions keeping in mind i'm preatty shy around her?

19 Name: Mireille guy : 2006-05-24 02:59 ID:j9o8RjIW

K-Man, how old are you? Can't you be casual and join in their conversation? Is there a big difference between your and her or her friends' ages? Can't you introduce yourself casually? You know, join in the conversation and bond a little with the girl you're seeing? A little prudence and caution in your approach is fine, but to avoid them completely tells me you're a little too childish or way too shy.

20 Name: K-Man : 2006-05-24 04:53 ID:/uwsBYwD

I'm only 15 right now. I guess i must be shy and also i don't know them too well so i wouldn't know where to start to talk and what happens if they like tell me to go away

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-24 12:51 ID:EB7E9gvi

Jumping into somebody else's convo is kinda rude, and they will both be able to tell that you're just trying to hit on her. Besides, don't hate on that other guy's game.

Maybe it's just me, but I insist that the female actually like me back.

22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-24 13:21 ID:Heaven

you crazy!

23 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-26 22:48 ID:2G+92YnZ

Just ask her if you two could catch-up. CATCH-UP! Juuuust the 2 of you
then when you're catchin-up, ask her out. I know it sounds easy but its actually really hard, but just don't let the "catch-up" stay like that. Otherwise its friendzone, and for a shy guy like you, friendzone = death. :D

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24 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-27 00:11 ID:SXQAOsXR

You never see her alone? Really, wait until she's alone, and just talk to her.

25 Name: K-man : 2006-06-09 23:17 ID:/uwsBYwD

K it's been a while so here is what has happened. I talked to a friend and he helped me by talking to his friend which knew her. It turned out the guy was my friend so he gave me her msn. And now I have had 2 conversations with her on msn and have said hi in the hall way a couple times

26 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-10 01:58 ID:1ImUgu0g

Progress...

27 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-10 07:04 ID:zbFOLxZf

press on K-man!

28 Name: LuRkEr : 2006-07-02 07:20 ID:9lFHUjZH

sounds great...reminds me Densha Otoko LOL