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How to tell if a girl is attracted to you? (68)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-28 11:50 ID:x5gYnvR/

How do you know if a girl is attracted to you? I am overly shy and often times I see girls staring right at me and I quicky look at them and then look away. Does this mean anything or am I looking into things too much?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-28 14:47 ID:kVft9jQr

Pay attention to them. When they look at you, look at them and smile, then look away. If they're interested and they see the smile, they'll either come over to you, or expect you to come over to them and show this by going somewhere along and standing there. I know shyness isn't good to do this with, but trust me, you're going to need to overcome it.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-28 15:44 ID:h2YQiduK

I think smiling back is also the best way in this situation, but be careful not to smile overtly encouraging. Also, if she's interested, she will want to talk to you. Make sure you also look approachable, and the both of you will most likely end up talking.

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4 Name: Admirable Secret!3pI2s8EqCA : 2006-05-28 21:02 ID:WPtR+O+U

Generally speaking, if she decides to lick your balls, she's probably attracted to you.

Or she just likes to lick balls.

5 Name: holdincourt : 2006-05-29 08:34 ID:nXXfgn0e

>>4 honestly, do you THINK when you type out something like that?

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-29 13:14 ID:6fUexIJO

Make yourself look more attractive, that way you know for sure that she's not just looking at you to be nice or because you're strange.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-29 18:04 ID:ej89zpCh

When it comes down to it at the end of the day, you aren't generally going to know if a girl likes you or not. But, if you like her, go ahead and take a chance.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-29 20:50 ID:GIXSarcI

Pressing a someone who doesn't like you into a relationship is bad karma

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-29 21:39 ID:nQnhxfrc


Don't give the troll attention, and he'll leave eventually.

10 Name: Admirable Secret!3pI2s8EqCA : 2006-05-30 00:23 ID:WPtR+O+U


11 Name: holdincourt : 2006-05-30 03:39 ID:nXXfgn0e

Well, to the original poster, just go for it...either way, you won't be questioning yourself all the time, right? Other thoughts could be goin through your "How to stop trollers..."

12 Name: Admirable Secret!3pI2s8EqCA : 2006-05-30 06:04 ID:WPtR+O+U

Rule #1: Don't give them material to work with. Give that a shot.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-30 06:15 ID:MMl9G+jz

If a girl is attracted to you she will come over and run off at the mouth to you. Pay her not attention.

If you need to get a girl's attention, then proceed to her immediate vicinity and ask her if she would like two tickets.

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14 Name: 愛子 : 2006-05-30 06:38 ID:49KerJZW


What's the loss even if you approach her? Some hints though, some girls like to abuse their crushes, some make verbal jokes about them, some stay miles away, some do the cheeky smile (possibly your's is like that) and some are just harsh flirts.

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15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-30 08:25 ID:x5gYnvR/

Steyr AUG-san. I have read many of your posts across these forums. Despite what you may believe noone finds any of them humorous at all. Beyond that, Steyr AUG does not help you pick up girls. Maybe the ugly piece of shit girls that live within your vicinity do and that is wonderful; however, we do not care. Anonymous does not forgive. DQN gtfo.

16 Name: holdincourt : 2006-05-30 09:40 ID:nXXfgn0e

Agreed with >>15

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-30 13:22 ID:1dQmS6i4

Agreed with>>15

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-30 14:57 ID:h2YQiduK

Agreed with >>15 except for the -san part

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-30 16:43 ID:OCzdQ1AM

I agree with >>15 and I am >>13.

Of course you are all super jealous but I am cereal about this stuff dudes. Steyr AUGs get you laid.

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-30 18:56 ID:h2YQiduK

Wow... unfortunately, my country has very strict fire-arm regulations. I don't think I can get my hands on one. So I think I'll need some oldfashioned tips on how to tell the signals a girl gives.

Please people, telling us D/\ting N00Bs that we should look at the nonverbal signs, that's pushing it a little. I mean, if you were Chinese, would you tell some westerner who goes to China to just listen to the people there? Its what you do, and it works for you, but we ain't Chinese (well most of us anyway) and we're pretty much lost.

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21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-30 20:19 ID:ej89zpCh

If you're interested in the girl, why not skip the worrying about if she's interested in you and ask her out, and find out the easy way?

22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-30 21:14 ID:rZ3bP63d


haha Your country must suck then.

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23 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-31 00:41 ID:ej89zpCh

Good to see someone's not jaded. :P

24 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-31 06:01 ID:+c1s5gPT


Oh my god what a stupid response. Just because women aren't all THAT important to me doesn't mean I'm "jaded". It is true what I say if you just live your goddamn life then someone will eventually traipse along.

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25 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-31 08:16 ID:z+1UidRI

>>22>>24Oh my god what a stupid response.

26 Name: holdincourt : 2006-05-31 11:31 ID:mFtaroQA

>>24 that kind of attitude towards relationships, even just finding someone to have one with, is probably proving unsuccessful for you, right?

If one doesn't try to begin with, how do they know how much effort to put in when things get serious? And even when they are putting in a lot of effort, they are probably prepared for the disappointment and consequences of no need for you to spell it out!

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27 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-31 13:43 ID:x5gYnvR/

>>20 Chinese girls are ugly though and Chinese ethics, culture and people all suck. Have fun getting scammed. Japan superior.

28 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-31 13:48 ID:ej89zpCh

If anyone follows the instructions to 'not try', I think they'll find themselves in a long dry spell.

29 Name: holdincourt : 2006-05-31 14:08 ID:mFtaroQA

>>27...which is more likely? The Chinese culture and girls and all not living up to your expectations? OR the fact that you don't take the time to understand them?

30 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-31 19:09 ID:h2YQiduK

haha nice >>29.

btw, chinese opinion of the japanese is, well, they're stuck at the level where the Chinese were two dynasties ago, and they sucked at even retaining that level.

31 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-31 20:10 ID:OFn51mPq

guys... lets not get off topic here (lets move away from what is going towards a races topic) and get back to how you know girls are attacted to you

32 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-01 04:48 ID:FVztR60W

?_?, what the...? Racist comments on a thread in L&R?! What is the world coming to!

33 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-01 11:57 ID:x5gYnvR/

I don't need to take time to understand if a girl is ugly... I also take Chinese as my Foreign Language in school and have done cultural segments etc. I still hate them as a people; however, it is best for my college resume.

34 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-01 13:02 ID:ndbAeNFl


That's pretty bad. Not just the fact that you hate a race - if you hate them that deeply, one would think you'd find something else to make your college resume look better.

35 Name: holdincourt : 2006-06-01 14:22 ID:MiLZrs3+

>>34's comments are also mine...

You take Chinese as a foreign what? You know it, but don't understand the history or culture behind it...coz if you did, while there are ugly parts, most of it is good! Like all cultures, nothing is all good and they all can't get everyone to like them...but YOU hate it inspite of having KNOWLEDGE of it...

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36 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-02 00:21 ID:+ETdVc7x

lol horny,lonley and crying virgins

37 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-02 05:27 ID:Heaven


lol lonely, pathetic and attention for any price seeking troll

38 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-02 10:26 ID:h2YQiduK

you guys, can we go back to how to understand chinese? let's not interpret that as actual chinese then. And leave the Chinese out of it, they're totally unimportant to this topic.

39 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-02 15:02 ID:x5gYnvR/

I am not involved in this discussion at all but I would just like to make one comment:

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40 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-02 15:07 ID:x5gYnvR/

The Japanese have been the most prosperous country in Asia for the past 100 years. China has about ten times (if not more) people as well. :-O Interesting how skewed some opinions are. Same goes for many of the rivalries between the big three (China, Japan, Korea).

41 Name: Mireille guy : 2006-06-02 15:14 ID:Heaven

"Fuck me, fuck me, fuck me, fuck me!!!"
That's how you know a girl is attracted to a guy. Yeah, seriously.
Or you can start talking about love generically, and if she's comfortable, and doesn't remove eye contact, then there's the green light.

42 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-02 16:29 ID:ndbAeNFl


WAY off base on the "all the same person" BS.

43 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-09 00:43 ID:h2YQiduK

Apparently, nobody here knows any Chinese except perhaps for the mireille guy:(
>>39 I happen to know that >>29 is not the same person as the other three, because only he typed on my keyboard

44 Name: Desperate otoko (no ko) : 2006-06-25 14:54 ID:By0iUR8o

>>27 You don't like the Chinese heh?! Well, I'M Chinese. What do you hate about us. Let me tell you I dont always like guai los either, especially guai los like you.

45 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-25 17:08 ID:x6VH7NCL

LOL! Nice use of Cantonese on that post, >>44

46 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-25 18:07 ID:0k54SSOG

>>44 has watched Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon twice and thinks he's Chinese

47 Name: Sinner Otoko : 2006-06-25 18:33 ID:7tmF4PvA


48 Name: Desperate otoko (no ko) : 2006-06-26 09:12 ID:By0iUR8o

HA! I AM Chinese. Born in HK 22 years ago and lived in the Western District of HK island for 8 years. Still, haven't answered my question >>27, why do you don't like us so much? I know why I dont like guai los that much, coz of guys like you.
>>45 thanks.

49 Name: Desperate otoko (no ko) : 2006-06-26 09:23 ID:By0iUR8o

Just to prove I'm HK Chinese: >>27 hai gor mol yun hau ge hum gar charn (all of this is Cantonese in phonetic using Western alphabet)

50 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-27 02:25 ID:F9GjSpz/

hahahaaha....diu lei lo mo!!

I am joking, also just proving I am HK Chinese (or at least I understand Cantonese).

51 Name: Desperate otoko (no ko) : 2006-06-27 02:41 ID:By0iUR8o

nei ju hai HK bin dol

52 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-27 04:36 ID:F9GjSpz/

I live on Lantau Island...

53 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-27 08:57 ID:Heaven

I'm JK chinese.

54 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-27 09:55 ID:F9GjSpz/


55 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-27 12:30 ID:Heaven


56 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-30 10:29 ID:XAcgnBlU

it's prolly cos he's a weeaboo and has adopted all the japanese racist traits against chinese. nothing worse than not being able to form your own values.

57 Name: iron man : 2007-11-20 20:54 ID:NkaEIkl1

>>22 I totally agree. If you spend to much time trying to get a chick you like, you're not going to get her because you're gonna be too nervous to approach her. The only way you can get a really hot girl is that you need to be super popular and an expert at flirting. I'm kind of popular and I really like this super hot chick and I can't get her no matter how many times I flirt with her. I'm an ok flirter.

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58 Name: Megaman : 2007-11-20 21:01 ID:NkaEIkl1

Asian girls are ugly, get over it. There's not one asian girl in my grade who's not ugly. Face the facts. Who cares about chasing girls. Most of the super hot chicks go out with 10 different people each week and make out with each of them. Most of them are whores, skanks or sluts. I've calculated that 4% of mega hotties are not skanks, whores, or sluts. If you find a chick who if part of that 4%, go for her now. Flirt with her and if she likes you ask her out damit. Then you'll eventually will have orgasm 10 times.

59 Name: ... : 2007-11-21 07:23 ID:1/6Iw/Fj

just jumping to it is not the best idea. you have to talk with her almost as a friend, but make sure you dont get put into the friend area. Then one day youll want to ask her out and shes eager to say something. you say "you go first." and she says that she has a boyfriend. you sit in quiet shock while she asks you what you needed to say.

60 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-21 08:35 ID:v+5JpdJ0


You're the one who is in more need of "facing the facts".

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61 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-22 02:19 ID:Heaven

This happened to me the other day, except substitute "boyfriend" with "husband".

62 Name: secret admirer : 2009-11-14 21:07 ID:0t8WA+ZP

im in college and there is a girl in my course i dont know if she likes me or not, she says she doesnt want a botfriend right now. when we hangout with other people we both do our own thing. but later that night when we are talking she grabs my hands and such. we always joke about stuff and bug eachother. im just not sure if its just friendly or if its serious??

63 Name: cornshit : 2009-11-15 16:24 ID:MQNyeidj

she already made it clear from the start right? if she starts jerking you off then it might be another thing. just keep the status quo and enjoy the ride.

64 Name: the Snake : 2009-11-17 21:08 ID:djD78Vh8

fuck man you gotta get off that shit
the fact that you are posting on here like everybody else just states that nobody would find you anywhere near attractive.
brother you are destined to fap that shit until the day your hand cramps beyond repair.
college bitches dont want guys that are all

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65 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-17 21:22 ID:Dk7bdSgr

Don't listen to >>64 about the drugs. Always pimp on the light side of the Force. It's up to you if you want to objectify her like that though.

66 Name: Roflcopter : 2010-01-10 07:07 ID:Ea+Vd5XJ

Rofl if im correct 40-64 has nothing to do with this post it went from the correct response to random arguments about chinese and fucking trolls.

67 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-01-10 14:56 ID:j8zt7EnI

You didn't have to bump the thread for that.

68 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-01-10 14:57 ID:Heaven

....And now I'm a hypocrite because I forgot sage.
Oh god the shame..