So, the girl I love told me one day that she feels unloved by me. While she wants to remain close (physically and emotionally), she wishes to be only friends. It's not so much she's not interested in me, it's more... Kinda hard to explain this. She feels this need to make other people happy. She listens to heartbroken guys and does her best to make them feel better about themselves, brings them confidence, and gets them back on their feet to find a more stable, meaningful relationship. The difference with me is we became boyfriend and girlfriend, and shared secrets with each other that we dare not with anyone else, including our own bodies.
She needs to learn that she can help guys in spite of being together with someone, though not the same way.
Why does she do it that way, though? Why does she have that need? Does she try to heal a part of her broken self by "healing" other people? She IS getting something out of it emotionally, humans do not do things they do not get something on some level out of it.
Reading this makes me think that you have a guilty conscience. You try too hard to cover up how you feel. It's like you just fit into whatever mold other people cast for you. You should try to live a more active life and learn to be more honest and to do good things instead of doing bad things in secret.