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1 Name: 33!bG03Hu1uIo : 2006-06-06 22:51 ID:L6ikg1JR

Hey guys.
I am a guy with not much of experience with romance, and I need help.

I have known this girl for about 6 months now, and we got close and "hung out" as time passed on. We make jokes a lot and I feel really comfortable when I am around her. I only thought her as a friend but someday my feelings towards her began to develope. Everytime I "hang out" with her I keep finding very good qualities that she possesses. She perfectly matches the descriptions of the girl I was dreaming to meet. We have had a few "events" (like the ones in Japanese dating simulation games) and I got attracted to her more and more. I never want to let go of her.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-07 00:16 ID:z1RDy2Fl

maybe it's time to just clear the air and if she doesn't feel the same way, perhaps it's time to move on?

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-07 06:39 ID:aPwy+9bY

>>1
Okay...I feel kind of sympathetic toward your plight so I'm going to help you.

First of all, life is not a Hentai Dating Sim. It just isn't. Keep this in mind. Second, do you KNOW she is in a relationship or is this something she just SAID. Some girls throw out the boyfriend angle as a way of putting up a comfort barrier. That way they won't be subjected to horniness, neediness, or come ons. This is normal and natural given today's political climate. And your fears of being used as a "toy" or more appropriately an "Emotional Tampon" are WELL warranted.

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4 Name: Marx : 2006-06-07 18:53 ID:uvWpWvuR

>>3
If I tried really, really hard... it MIGHT be possible for me to agree with this guy more.

Honestly, they're smack on the money. No matter how perfect a girl might seem (or, alternatively, might BE), there is ALWAYS somebody else if you screw this one up.

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-06-09 04:06 ID:qe3gLbSO

#1 if she really has a boyfriend and she's going out with you, I'd question her loyalty

#2 if she's lying to feel safe, then she's probably not ready for a relationship