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1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-04 20:21 ID:H4nq83cf

Simple question

kay this is the question that is very debated with no clear answer what is the limit in age difference between a guy or girl for it to be morally right/wrong like we know the extreme were 40year old + 20 year old is well usually not that well but the cloudy area is what I wanna know say

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2 Name: 電気男 : 2006-07-04 20:28 ID:sx2VNNvl

Uh...dunno about your state laws, but mine says thats a no no. Under 18 is only allowed when you aren't doing anything with her. 15 is too young in my opinion....

BTW, I'm almost 21 and my GF will be turning 19 soon. Only 2 year difference, seems to work fine for me.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-04 20:29 ID:8uUWyfiv

Well it first depends on the laws of your region. Some places, like where I live, the age of consent is 16. I'm 19 and I give my self +/- 2 years. I'll probably move it up to +/- 3 years when I am 20 or 21, usually siding on the -3 years side.

4 Name: Chill-Anon : 2006-07-04 23:23 ID:38NmM4QZ

It would be best to date someone your age, or around a year different.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-04 23:51 ID:37OB5E0b

As you get older, age difference will be less and less apparent. The person I'm with is 4 years older than me, but we've been happy together for almost two years.

Personally I don't think it matters all that much.

6 Name: 1 : 2006-07-05 03:08 ID:L6tBFsHk

In Ontario the age of consent is 14 (actually I its being moved up to 16 and I agree with it 14 is like bwaaaa)

no I'm not asking if about "those" acts in the relationship

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-05 04:20 ID:Heaven

i think if you are in the same school, like same high school, then its cool. If you are in college and dating someone in high school, its acceptable but you can do better.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-05 04:27 ID:S5IHZcWP

To be honest, anything from 13 and up is fair game for me and I'm 21.

9 Name: Chill-Anon : 2006-07-05 15:22 ID:iTH1CxQQ

>>8 like little kids do you?

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-05 15:27 ID:wGYkLSzj

>>9
The way girls sprout these days they ain't all that little.

11 Name: Polaris!iM7pnkmddc : 2006-07-05 16:46 ID:vufcI9hf

>>10
Yes, but they chose to dress that way because they're trying to attract boys their age, idiot, not grown men like you who think every teenage girl in low-rise jeans is saying "DO ME, OLDER MAN!!!"
Also, have you ever seen the Juniors' aisle in a store? There's not a lot to chose from, especially in the summer.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-05 19:15 ID:lSTJMP+L

>>11
You'd be surprised at how many of them actually want an older guy. I've met and exchanged experiences with several.

13 Name: Polaris!iM7pnkmddc : 2006-07-05 20:45 ID:vufcI9hf

>>12
I'm not saying some of them don't want one, it's just not good to make an assumption that ALL of them do and are fair game.

14 Name: 1 : 2006-07-05 22:46 ID:IA3WiYV7

hmmm I don't consider they should even date at least date seriously until 14+

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-06 03:56 ID:3VPM6NuV

lolz i was thinking of making a topic lke this. some people claim there's something wrong with wanting to unf 13 year old girls .. i claim every straight guy who denies he would hit hot 13 year old pussy if he had the chance (given it's legal and such) would.

16 Name: frigid onanoko : 2006-07-06 07:17 ID:AJZz8Lqh

13 year olds... dude, are hardly out of diapers so to speak. Don't troll.

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-06 08:04 ID:3VPM6NuV

as long as their is grass on the field .. play ball

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-06 12:11 ID:AJZz8Lqh

you gonna play balls with my legs too?

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-06 14:03 ID:Heaven

I am 17 years old...I wouldn't date someone younger than 14-15 (age of consent is 15 here)

20 Name: KIRA : 2006-07-06 17:25 ID:W3bdjoIj

for guys:

(Your Age) Divide by 2 + 7 = age of girl youngest to date

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21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-06 23:44 ID:ExK1hG8q

Dudes talking about 13 years olds c'mon they're only kids. If i heard anyone talk about my niece like that I'd break their legs. If anyone here seriously thinks it's ok you need some serious therapy.

22 Name: 1 : 2006-07-07 03:34 ID:IA3WiYV7

ya.. err 14 is stretching it and 13 is just no.

>>20 ya your rule is nice but I think the other factor that gotta be considered is that the maturity of the person + others

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23 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-07 03:52 ID:Heaven

>>21
If you don't think 13 year olds are sexually active you are quite wrong my friend. And isn't it better that they do it with someone that is experienced, caring and knows what it's all about instead of some drug dealing 16 year old with numerous STDs who won't use protection or even think about how the girl feels?

24 Name: 1 : 2006-07-07 14:50 ID:IA3WiYV7

I never said they weren't sexually active physically, they could probably have sex a lot younger, and in an extreme case I read this girl actually had a child when she was like 5-7 (sorry I forgot the exact number but its around there)

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25 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-07 15:23 ID:Heaven

>>24
Wow, some of the best arguments I've ever heard!!! Atleast try to be serious.

26 Name: secret admirer : 2006-07-07 17:49 ID:GjSapXDD

well, I have no problem with ages since many marriages still are a bit arranged. my aunt is 21years younger than her husband. I'm "only" 8years younger than mine.

27 Name: アニメお宅 : 2006-07-08 05:20 ID:LEnZ2e5+

age doesn/t really matter if both of you like each others right ^_^

once i dated older woman than my own age ^_^

28 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-08 21:12 ID:c9vchJgC

i think that even somebody around 20 can date a 12 year old girl.... as long as there aren't abuses etc.... it depends on them...

don't get trapped by the fake children's abuse prevention which is quite strong these days..... (although there are right about certain things..)

29 Name: Amarok : 2006-07-08 23:20 ID:t6wY14aR

>>28
Yea... THEY SURE ARE!

...pedo

30 Name: アニメお宅 : 2006-07-09 02:59 ID:23BnfDpy

date a younger girl, they're easily tricked >:)

31 Name: 182 : 2006-07-10 10:37 ID:c9vchJgC

if your definition of pedo is : somebody who love little girl and can fall in love with one. no doubt i am a pedo (it's not a matter of sex like the anti-lolikon (anti pedo) think)

But if your definition is : somebody who have psychological problems, is sick and want to trap a little girl and screw her and harm her for the rest of her life... well i'm not..

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32 Name: 28 : 2006-07-10 10:37 ID:c9vchJgC

i was 28 = 31

33 Name: 1 : 2006-07-10 18:41 ID:UDn3b6bU

question why do you people like little girls who are like 10 years younger than you....

34 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-10 19:00 ID:Heaven

>>33 Because they are pretty.

35 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-10 19:41 ID:Heaven

>>33
because of japan, mainly

36 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-10 21:43 ID:YeO7LNGn

>>33
What's there not to like? Why do you like girls your age or whatever?

37 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-10 23:18 ID:R5hta3GV

Who cares if it's morally wrong?

If you truly have feelings for a girl, I say go for it unless they're extremely young, say, 4.

38 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-11 09:13 ID:c9vchJgC

People say that anybody in his 20 ies (and more) who love little girl is sick. Well ... i don't understand why...

maybe because of the christian values....

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39 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-11 14:42 ID:Heaven

>>31 >>38

You know you want to fuck children, you say it's not about sex but you know where your romantical emotions turn to is where eventually your dicks will end up, be that my 10 year old sister or a block of concrete sidewalk.

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40 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-11 15:21 ID:Heaven

>>39
Living like monkeys may prevent pedophilia but going back to that is just retarded.

41 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-11 15:33 ID:oIwKoH4i

I am 24 and was together with a 16 year old some month ago. Wasn't much fun though and ended after like two weeks. Now I'm back to the policy I had before: 20 and older is fine, younger girls are really children after all. Or at least there's a difference in life settings that makes it hard to find things to talk about.
But well, if I fall in love with a 19 year old, there's not much I could do about it, is there?

42 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-11 15:46 ID:7yWO0D1y

>>40

Well there are practical complications at this point which makes it impossible, there's no return now. Not that I'm saying we should live like monkeys.

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43 Name: 1 : 2006-07-12 03:56 ID:P4PzqWPR

What is it about little girls that attract you?

like their immature childish? their innocence of not knowing better? what? just wondering =D

44 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-14 04:21 ID:bE68pzH6

how cute they are.

45 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-14 06:41 ID:Heaven

A 21 year old man "dating" a 14 year old girl is wrong because the girl has no idea what she's doing. The man is taking advantage of her immaturity regardless of the circumstances. Kids that young simply can't have an adult relationship. They're too stupid, to put it bluntly. I've never seen a girl 16 and under that's dating a guy 18+ and thought it looked like a healthy, fuctioning relationship. Everything about it is wrong!

46 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-14 12:34 ID:AvDiJ8x8

>>45

OK thanks for your opinion lol, even though i don't agree at all ^^

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47 Name: 1 : 2006-07-14 18:50 ID:P4PzqWPR

I think there is a difference between:

The age gap if you both really love each other for who they are, and you aren't loving them just for the fact they are younger and the attributes that come with it. The younger memeber must also realize fully the responsibility of a relationship.

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48 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-15 00:04 ID:Tn3jeJy0

>>1

>>and 18 + anyone older is fair game?
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49 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-15 02:13 ID:69UjhafG

>>46 Finish reading the sentence. I've SEEN old guys dating 13-15 year old girls, but it didn't look like ~true love~ if you know what I mean. I agree with >>47. And it's simply a fact that girls that young aren't mature or experienced enough to understand what they're getting into. Even if the guy really thinks he loves her, he is still taking advantage of her in that way.

50 Name: 1 : 2006-07-15 02:45 ID:P4PzqWPR

>>48
what I said was
----
some people before were like if you are

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51 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-15 19:03 ID:XG/7ESXT

So much of this thread is about whether it's "okay" for an eighteen-year-old to bonk a seventeen-year-old or what have you… There are other considerations when entering a relationship with a younger partner besides just legality or "okay"-ness.

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52 Name: Love fiasco-guy : 2006-07-15 21:30 ID:hgjpu1YC

I don't think it's ZOMG moraliry wrong to date and fuck someone younger, even 19/16 couples. It's just that in the teen period, I mean from 15-18, every year counts. You know, you (hopefully) make major leaps to maturity with every year in those couple of years. It's not really THAT noticable after 18, though, so it is not a thing to consider after that. There are undeniably mature persons with 15 and undeniably stupid and immature ones even still with 23, it's just that, as a rule, the younger someone is from the 18-year point, the immaturer they are. If I think someone is mature enough with 15 or whatever, hey, why not?

53 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-16 06:30 ID:Heaven

I'm a 19-year old guy, and I was seeing a 27-year old woman for a while. She was asian, so she was shorter than me and looked young, around my age, so I guess it wasn't that big of a deal. We didn't see anything wrong with it ourselves. But after everything was said and done it did leave a bad feeling in my mouth. I don't know why...but we had such different life experiences. It was hard to communicate, I thought. But I'm not blaming that on age. It's probably just because of how different our upbringings were.

54 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-17 05:01 ID:XG/7ESXT

>It's not really THAT noticable after 18, though, so it is not a thing to consider after that.

I don't think you can define such a hard-and-fast age at which you stop mentally maturing, though. I know that I was a much different person at 20 than I was at 18, and that I'm a much different person now than I was at 20. Maybe in another two or four years, I'll be a different person again. Maybe it never ends.

55 Name: Love fiasco-guy : 2006-07-17 11:45 ID:CnloaVeS

>>54
See, that's what I'm talking about. You cannot set some universal rules on when the age difference is too big - it's up for the 2 people who like each other to decide, not for yourself. The thing is just with teens, there really SHOULD be a limit because, as already said, most of them are immature, and it doesn't have to stop with 18, but it mostly, kind of, somehow does stop a bit at 18.

56 Name: >>54 : 2006-07-18 07:22 ID:XG/7ESXT

And I'm saying that, if I'm an average person (which I like to think I am), eighteen is still too early.

Incidentally, how old are you?

57 Name: >>54 : 2006-07-18 07:26 ID:XG/7ESXT

>eighteen is still too early.

...to be considered done maturing. (To finish my thought.)

58 Name: I/FAIL\IT!anzteOw4H6!!hD8noMhp : 2006-07-18 08:32 ID:nVLR86WG

n/2+7 for minimum age

ex. 1
17 and 14

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59 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-18 09:01 ID:Heaven

21/2+7 =

17.5!

60 Name: Mireille guy : 2006-07-18 20:20 ID:ZBpJwLgK

I have some rules about ages:

Never too old to be your mother and too young to be your daughter.
I set that limit to be 10 years.

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61 Name: KYO IS SEXY : 2006-07-19 04:18 ID:nVLR86WG

>>60 If you're underage (<18 of age) 12 and up is fine.
If you're adult (=>18), then nothing under 15. It's way too much trouble.

17 and 12 doesn't work. 25 and 15 doesn't work. Your rules are sub-par!

62 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-19 13:33 ID:+aw1DE8y

i going to be 22 this year. my last gf is 15. worked fine :D

63 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-19 14:31 ID:R1ebOyeC

errr

Is 19 and 16 okay?
(currently 18 and 15)

64 Name: Einhander!anzteOw4H6 : 2006-07-19 20:10 ID:nVLR86WG

>>63
19/2=9.5
9.5 + 7 = 16.5

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65 Name: Love fiasco-guy : 2006-07-19 21:50 ID:jnCesMpn

So in conclusion: rules are dumb and only for insecure fucks. Do what you gotta do, just use your goddamn brain once and everything will be ok

66 Name: Mireille guy : 2006-07-19 22:20 ID:aUyj3XMI

To >>61
You forgot mentioning 12 and 22.
I totally agree with >>65. They are my own guidelines where things are most likely to work (and add a little of ethics). You could think 17 and 12 could never work... or 25 and 15. or 12 and 22. I dunno since I'm older now. Just use your brain, and measure up the situation... sometimes the situation allows for such large discrepancies; most of the times it doesn't. >>65 sums up my conclusion as well.

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67 Name: Animegirl aka Prototype Angel : 2006-07-19 22:39 ID:rLelTHet

Here's the thing about the difference in age... It's okay to date someone who's older/younger than you by ten years. But what's most troublesome is that the young person have not gone through things most older person had gone through... For example... If you're 22 and he/she is 10 and up older than you then that person has passed through everything you are going through (I'm only talkin' about lifestyle) and it become very old for that person (even though some don't want to admit it). Some older people are much more mature than the young one and it may cause a slight problem. Some young adults like myself are still dependable with their parents because they go to college to get a career or that they didn't learn how to take care of themselves. Also they tend to die of old age first than the young one unless by some cruel faith the young one dies which ever comes first. Do you remember what Anna Nichole did when she got involved with a old geezer? She had a relationship with him and in the end he died and left a hefty large sum of money to her...

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68 Name: Einhander!anzteOw4H6 : 2006-07-20 03:16 ID:Heaven

>>66
Well, yeah, that goes without saying.

I just find the discussion of age-boundaries amusing. And n/2+7 is pretty reliable.

69 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-19 02:32 ID:nYPqT4TY

>>23
If they're that young(13), should they really be having sex? I know that many are, but a 13 year old is simply not emotionally mature enough to have that kind of a relationship.
Our society is telling children to do such things - this is the real problem

70 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-19 02:34 ID:nYPqT4TY

>>33
Because they are "pure", and many older women many not be.

71 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-19 02:46 ID:nYPqT4TY

When I first started dating my girlfriend she was 16 and I was 17, but I look around 3 years older than I am, and she about 2 years younger than she is (although she is mature.) Thus, it looked like 14 and 20...
I'm now in college and she's in high school; it looks even worse (because she practically hasn't aged!)

72 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-19 07:45 ID:yaOWrDBu

Just think about your self at the age 16.
I was easy to fool at that age and sometimes i did things that i shouldn't have done.
i think 17 is really the limmit for any one between 19-25
depends how mature she is.

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73 Name: carn : 2006-11-21 22:35 ID:vmTgEz3p

When you are above the age of 20 there is a rule that my cousin and I follow... Take your age, cut in half, then add seven, and that is the youngest age you can be with. It works out well.

74 Name: bellaluna : 2006-11-22 08:42 ID:qx5VBCC0

and what is the equation for just how old you will date? lol

75 Name: carn : 2006-11-23 22:00 ID:vmTgEz3p

I guess it would be the same but the other way around. so the max age for me would be 40 i guess.

76 Name: bellaluna : 2006-11-25 08:31 ID:qx5VBCC0

40+can still be pretty hot ya know! don't dis it till ya try it!

77 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-25 20:58 ID:Heaven

>>73
we already said that

78 Name: bellaluna : 2006-11-26 08:40 ID:qx5VBCC0

you did? where?

79 Name: carn : 2006-11-28 07:56 ID:KGNeOB6T

ya, you see im retarded some times and dont read the post before mine and I just start typing, sorry bout that. you can call me names if you like.

80 Name: carn : 2006-11-28 07:56 ID:KGNeOB6T

ya, you see im retarded some times and dont read the post before mine and I just start typing, sorry bout that. you can call me names if you like.

81 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-28 10:09 ID:qx5VBCC0

really if two people like each other enough - age is not a problem. teenagers should date teenagers tho -imho - just because they would have more in common

82 Name: : 2006-11-29 00:07 ID:OmxXJvC9

I think that it is like gay people. Love isnt about gender, it's about the two people. i feel that this is the same thing.
I say this, but still if i saw a 59 year old guy and a 15 year old girl making out i'd be a little more than weirded out >.<

83 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-30 04:23 ID:+OprjEPq

im 19 and im with a 16 year old. As long as the younger is above the age of concent there is nothing wrong. if she was 15 then it wud not only be wrong but illegal

84 Name: bellaluna : 2006-12-03 18:33 ID:qx5VBCC0

it seems more acceptable if the man is older than the woman-even 10-20 years older. But I think men in general are "turned off" to dating women who are older than they are. "Older" women have a higher libido than young women and guys don't know what they are missing - if they pass on a woman just cuz the numbers aren't right. I am not talking bout gray haired grannies here - lol.

85 Name: lemondrop : 2006-12-07 09:18 ID:rQX0IoHA

I'm 19 and dating a 16 year-old. He's very intelligent and witty, but there's this huge gap between us in maturity. I mean, he's great on a lot of levels, but I doubt I'd date anyone else his age. Sometimes it's just a matter of personality rather than age.

86 Name: StarOnion : 2006-12-07 15:11 ID:S3oUp+63

I'm a 22 year old woman dating at 18 year old.

I love it. Y_Y