She was raped by her brother when she was young.
Umm... I sure hope not, because her brother is a really cool guy, actually one of my friends.
Or her father. Or an uncle. Or some dude.
It's definitely an intimacy problem of some sort. THERAPY!
Maybe she thinks she had bad breath? Or she's missing teeth, and thinks you might try to stick your tounge in her mouth?
Also, is she letting you have sex with her? Would you consider your relationship with her purely sexual, or is it also a loving one?
"One of the women I have been seeing for the past 2 months"
I assume it's a sexual one.
It is unclear at the moment. She tells me she loves me but we do not consider ourselves an official couple.
Breath is not an issue, and she doesn't have any missing teeth... so that's not it...
Hmm... rules out that, then.
I would just directly ask her about it, if you haven't already.
Fine, but I think I agree... I'm gonna just after confront her again about it and extract an answer from her, and if she still won't give me a straight answer... I'll slowly let her.
I've dated enough psychos in my time, I can't take another one.
"Pretty Woman" amirite?
Can't kiss the guy, for fear of being too emotionally attached?
And if you can't stand to let her go, but also can't stand that, just rape the kiss from her. ;)
Raping a kiss is usally a bad idea, and shows that the person doing the raping has zero respect for you and your wished, and that your needs will happily be sacrificed at their whim.
Well, she does come from a culture (Palestinian Arab) that frowns upon public displays of affection and has very strict guidelines for courtship, so that might have some affect on it...
...oh, and she recently admitted to me that she's Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder. That might explain a LOT.
Yeah. If she's like, /OH LORDY GERMS!/, she might be a bit squeamish about that.
Question: how do you do italics, anyway?
>>1, maybe she wants to give her first kiss to her husband, or one true love or something. Let's face it, some girls are really idealistic and us guys can only hope to figure out what's running on their mind.