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1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-28 13:11 ID:pNoHDBcI

So I have a boyfriend since 3 months (haven't seen him 6 weeks because it's vacation). He told me he loved me after only on month. well, I think he's meaning it but I don't love him at all. After the 6 weeks during which I haven't seen him, I feel like I'm quite a lot happier without a boyfriend. To be honest I feel bother by him now. well I'm slightly coldhearted, but it wouldn't be ok to stay with him without returning hi feelings.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-28 13:14 ID:OjQbGGx2

say, im sorry im not happy being in a relationship and i dont think we should see each other anymore

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-28 13:26 ID:pNoHDBcI

so it would be fine to put it just like that?

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-28 13:32 ID:Yw2TYxzx

just say exactly how you think about it, if he really loves you and understands he'll let you go

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-28 18:57 ID:5xLH4OWR

but i tried letting her go, i can't seem to stop thinking about her though
the analogy for the process is something of a ladder, but i'm finding it hard to even move my desires down the next rung down, something about her being too cute, i suck i know but that's how it happens to be

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-28 19:01 ID:Yw2TYxzx

your her bf??
if not im completly lost

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-28 21:20 ID:K8bHfNU6


this thread has taken a turn for the interesting

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-29 11:47 ID:YAbDqO5L

>>5 I suppose you are just a random guy happening to be on the other side of a problem similar to the OP's one. Are you seeing her casually (at work/school) often? If yes, try to invest yourself into some activity you'd enjoy (some hobby), even if you feel you do not want to - force yourself. Hope it'll help.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-02 02:18 ID:Heaven

>>5 :

>>8 's right.

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10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-02 10:58 ID:pNoHDBcI

so you've been through this already?

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-05 11:20 ID:zgFuPvJU

OP here, everyone said I should stay with him because he#s such a nice person, but still I don#t want to stay with him just because he's a nice person

12 Name: holdincourt : 2006-08-07 09:02 ID:yFt49/He

Well, then don't drag it's unfair to the guy if you continue to lead him on like this...and you are just lying to yourself AND him if you continue to do so.