So I have a boyfriend since 3 months (haven't seen him 6 weeks because it's vacation). He told me he loved me after only on month. well, I think he's meaning it but I don't love him at all. After the 6 weeks during which I haven't seen him, I feel like I'm quite a lot happier without a boyfriend. To be honest I feel bother by him now. well I'm slightly coldhearted, but it wouldn't be ok to stay with him without returning hi feelings.
say, im sorry im not happy being in a relationship and i dont think we should see each other anymore
so it would be fine to put it just like that?
just say exactly how you think about it, if he really loves you and understands he'll let you go
but i tried letting her go, i can't seem to stop thinking about her though
the analogy for the process is something of a ladder, but i'm finding it hard to even move my desires down the next rung down, something about her being too cute, i suck i know but that's how it happens to be
this thread has taken a turn for the interesting
>>5 I suppose you are just a random guy happening to be on the other side of a problem similar to the OP's one. Are you seeing her casually (at work/school) often? If yes, try to invest yourself into some activity you'd enjoy (some hobby), even if you feel you do not want to - force yourself. Hope it'll help.
OP here, everyone said I should stay with him because he#s such a nice person, but still I don#t want to stay with him just because he's a nice person
Well, then don't drag it on...it's unfair to the guy if you continue to lead him on like this...and you are just lying to yourself AND him if you continue to do so.
STEP UP, BREAK UP!