I'm afraid I have a problem. That of course, is not unusual as it seems everyone comes here for relationship advice.
Well if you were man enough I suggest you fight for her! You should visit whereever she is no matter what! If you do that, then she'll probably realize what you came through to make this relationship last so long and what you mean to her! =)
Of course I'm man enough! And I'd drop everything in a heartbeat! She lives in Arizona, and I live in Oklahoma. I stepped out the door the other day, and started walking. I got about five miles and realized it was more of a danger to walk, then find a sensible solution. My family has little money, and so does her's. (Her father's an ass, anyway.) I've planned to put all of my expenses on hold to visit her at Christmas.
YOU DO THAT!!!! hmmmmmmm. You should take a train wich is cheaper or if you wanna get their in a jiffy take a plane, either way you need to be there at the exact moment and Christmas IS PERFECT! It'll be your present to her so you shouldn't tell her.If your willing to sacrifice everythying in the world for her tell her that Bruce will have to wait cause your madly in love with her and you'll prove that on Christmas
yup yup, christmas isnt about presents or santa. It´s Luv!
A train! Perfect. I never thought about it. Faster than a bus, yet cheaper than a plane. Thank you. ^^ Still, anymore input from anyone is a great insight on this.
No. From what I can tell your relationship will be dead by Christmas unless something changes. Let's face it she has put up with a long distance relationship for over a year now and it's obvious what she needs is physical contact that you haven't provided nearly enough of. If you really love her you'll let her be with the other man who she is happier with.
humbaba your a disgrace! why would anyone just give up! Their relationship lasted for a long time and that means he still has a chance! "The light never fades, it just dims"-Me
He would give up if he really loved her. She's found a man who she likes better it's that simple.
IT'S NOT ABOUT SEX IT'S ABOUT LOVE! this whole thing is a test of love.All you people who believe in giving up are weak.It's not about rich or poor, better or worse.It's about winning the heart.
Anyways for you, TokyoJapan22, I write song.
I quote myself
I want you to quote me
tokyojapan22: you are fascinating. please tell us more about yourself.
I'd say do not give up, but waiting until Christmas is way too long, you should act sooner
No he should wait till Christmas! Doing that tells her he was patient.If he just pops in, it's not magical.You see there's a time for everything! Christmas is a time for giving so give your heart on Christmas!That'll surely boost up your charm!=)
TokyoJapan22 I've realised now I was wrong to insult you. You're right, and I pity you for it. I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me.
>>17, no offence but you should try to help yourself first before helping other people so that you can help better well later.
Not exactly. Knowledge and and the human mind are two different things.We are all different, in strength and mind. I may have been humiliated and dumped for what I am but helping myself isn't much of a concern for me yet. I'm in HighSchool! I have plenty of time to discover myself fully. Right now I want to keep doing what I do best, helping others with anything I can cover. You can call me your word to the wise! =)
heh. well yeah.
in some ways you can be helpfull TJ, but in some cases i think you need a little more life experience
Last year I was going out with a girl who was in love with me at first, but then I started singing in a band which meant every day after school would be practice, and even though I;d invite her to come hang out with us she always said no and would always hang out with my best friend. Eventually it got to the point where she started falling for him and I told him to cut the shit but he wouldn't and I almost beatthe shit out of him because of it. Anyhoo, she broke what we had to go for him and he broke her heart and she wished she could come back to me but I was a stubborn asshole who wouldn't even acknowledge her existence anymore. Earlier in the year she came back to me and she was all I ever wanted, but before we could start anything new she left me AGAIN for another friend of mine. So all I can say to you dude is just find another or beat the shit out of this guy, if you give it time you'll eventually get over her, it hurts but it'll be worth it when you find someone better and closer to you.
you think parking your fist into someone's face will solve things?
people who use violence are the once's who are weak i must say.
Hey Kail! Why don't you just not give advice if it's causing trouble. Trouble is something that can become or turn into something more, like a katamari. Katamari's are orbs that roll around picking things up. Trouble is like a katamari, it can pick victims and doing so it'll grow.The more something grows, the bigger it's affect on people. So I suggest that you Kail should find someone else! You need someone who can appreciate your dream of become a musician and still be there for you."If life leads you to your destiny, maybe love will be waiting in the end"-TokyoJapan22
We are moved to tears by the size of the trubles you caused!
Well I am pretty sure a real 14 year old girl would have noticed the apology I made and would have said some dumbass comment about it but this TokyoJapan22 is a poor troll.
TokyoJapan22 please go away. Far far away.
Hello everyone. Original poster, here.
Thank you all for the input, and I would say that some things have changed since my last post...
ALLRIGHT! Sorry humbaba for whatever harm I did and I accept your apology.
When you go visit her at Christmas, and keep in mind, its only August, you should propose to have an open relationship with her. Now it may seem weird, but technically you two are going out, but if the situation that would come up or just sudden urges, you won’t do anything that would upset her. The way things seem to be going, she or even you can easily find someone new and end it right there. Hell a small fight may send this relationship into the gutter. I hope for the best for you two, but just expect the worse.
OP again. And I know your view point. I'm very pessimistic and fatalist myself. I know love isn't everything, but she's the last thing I got, ya know?
i can see why she's fallen for another guy when her own guy listens to rhianna -.-