A couple of years ago, I met a girl. She's cute, intelligent and geeky. She began dating some guy. While they were dating, we began talking. We'd talk about random things, often sex. At one point she said that if she'd met me first, she would probably be with me instead of the other guy. The other guy found out she'd taken a liking to me and forbade her from talking to me. (yeah, he's an ass.)
The negatives don't seem that bad. I say why not.
lol, I forgot to say I got outside and figured out my sunroof was closed. I screwed myself out of more cuddling. She did say "You'd better go close it" and something about me going home. I'm not sure if that means she wanted me out or what. I think she needed to get up early the next day.
Christ, sounds JUST like my first real love. ;_;
Run as far away as possible.
I had the whole "marry my first boyfriend" thing going on, but, three ex's later, I've found that's one of those promises to yourself you'll just have to break. All you can really do is give her a chance. You guys seem to get along well enough, at least for now. So long as she doesn't drag you to church all the time, you're cool with the religion thing, right? So long as both of you don't make too much of a fuss about it, it shouldn't be too bad. Actually, one of my friends technically has two religions.XD One of her parents is Jewish and the other is Christian, and they've been rather content in their marriage for about 20-ish years now. It's kinda sweet.<3
> always wanted my first girlfriend to be the one I marry
two words man, try before you buy.
The fact that she agreed to not talk to me for such a long time shows me that she can be devoted when she wants to, I suppose.
Am I a bastard if I question my ability to deal with her religion? I just think it's a crutch...
it doesn't need to be an issue. don't get all up in her face about it; if she gets all up in yours, and you're not cool with that, break it off. you can respect her choice to believe without having to believe yourself; if she's worth your time, she'll respect that.
Lately she's been sort of spiteful toward the stupid goth whore and she's been hanging out with a lot of other guys. I just think she's too aggressive for me. I guess that's another 2 or 3 years of waiting for me. Doubt I'll ever find someone I can get along with.