Er...a lot of you guys've seen me around these boards lately, and I've been trying to give advice as best I can, but right now I need a bit of help myself.x.x
See, my ex-boyfriend, who I don't love in the same way anymore, but I still care for greatly, used to practically live with me and my roommates. My roommates loved the guy; they REALLY loved the guy. I mean, both roomie1 and roomie2 had a thing for him, as well as me. He liked me, so he chose me, and then he dumped me after a week or so. In hindsight, it was really my fault since I was real flirty with him, and he had told me before that he liked roomie1. I managed to win him over; unfortunately, it was simply short-lived.
In my opinion, from the posts that you post so far. It seems you are an irresponsible desperate shameless slut. How can you let a man in and letting him fuck all of you without even knowing his phone number and address? Does shallow outlook clouding your judgement? I can tell that you a person who opinion should be taken with a grain of salt, so far most if not all your posts are full of ignorant. It appears to me that you are insecure woman by the way you post and you try insult guys who appears to be shy or less fortunate to make you feel better about yourself, it clearly reveal beneath your pretentious personality, you can't hide that. Look if you want to keep stereotyping otaku and geeks, first you should do some research, you loosely associate the term to those who you think are otaku but not, they just simply geeks and regular fan of anime. You are full of shit. I can tell that you aren't attractive so stop trying to appeal that bullshit quality to us. Your an unconfident and narcissitic ignorant bitch who is desperate for men and attention, you got me? I hate that you use the haruhi to signify yourself, please stop polluting that name, you aren't a fan, you just bangwagon jumper who hapen to jump onto anime because it is popular among alot of people that you find inferior so you could insult them to make you feel better, you are nothing but an insecure desperate bitch. Please stop calling yourself a fan, and don't disgrace the anime community by starting an anime club, you shouldn't be doing that in the first place, god forbid it. You think your perception of self -value would go higher if you laugh at those anime fans, it wouldn't make a difference because you are ignorcant of their situations. And to call yourself an anime fan, you are shameful and makes alot anime fan sad that a person like you exist. Fucking god forbid you use a name like Haruhi to identify yourself, you are simply not worthy of calling yourself that name. Go and fuckin use a different name you ugly ignorant bitch! Lastly don't ever establish an anime club, you are the type of people who should never do that.
This is why you should be anonymous instead of keeping an identity. I recomend you keep posting here but try that. Otherwise you seem like you are trying to get attention just because you are a girl.
It's a wonder why people like you can't get a girlfriend. I mean, you're so very nice, aren't you? If this is how you are on an anonymous board, I'd rather not assume what you act like in real life. Most probably you're equally immature online as offline. Also, excuse me for being confident in my appearance and taking pride in my hobbies.
well. in my opinion, you should just wait. he may have been a good friend to you in the past but it sounds like he has other priorities. this isn't how I would treat someone I cared for.
One, going to his workplace would most definitely ***be*** stalking. Two, he's roomie1's boyfriend, it's her problem to deal with now. You don't even know why he left or apparently why he dissappeared all those other times. Someone who pops in and out like that sounds like a flake who would be more trouble than they're worth no matter how much you like them. Why do all of you like him anyhow? Reading it again the situation is like a harem anime.
Damn you, wakabamark!
protip go kill your self.
Okay. Thank you for your advice. The situation WAS rather surreal, actually. We were good friends with him for quite a while, and then he started living with us; in other words, he moved into the apartment building with his own private apartment, but slept on our couch in the living room most nights, ate with us, and did our dishes. (We have a notorious dish problem.) I think at some point it finally clicked that this was a male living amongst females, and each of us just grew more and more fond of him. On hindsight, however, he was a bit of a flake.
"Look if you want to keep stereotyping otaku and geeks, first you should do some research, you loosely associate the term to those who you think are otaku but not, they just simply geeks and regular fan of anime."
I told you guys about this bitch, I told you.
But nobody listens to me. Anyways some REAL advice for you:
insecure... low self-esteem...
You were made fun of alot as a child weren't you?
i think you have to remember one thing about human beings. everyone is naturally programmed to act in their best self-interests. the person you should be with is is someone who is mature enough to overcome their impulses. well, if you ever want to talk further, let me know. it would be interesting to see the resolution of your situation
Well, that's quite a situation. He does seem a bit flakey, but maybe he had his reasons for just up and leaving like that, though it doesn't come off well. Maybe he felt that was the best way to go? It seems really immature though to not even leave a note or something, sounds to me like he didn't have the guts to say goodbye. And maybe he'll return, but it's unlikely. I'd advise you all move on as soon as you can.
I think we've got a psych PHD on this board