Er...a lot of you guys've seen me around these boards lately, and I've been trying to give advice as best I can, but right now I need a bit of help myself.x.x
See, my ex-boyfriend, who I don't love in the same way anymore, but I still care for greatly, used to practically live with me and my roommates. My roommates loved the guy; they REALLY loved the guy. I mean, both roomie1 and roomie2 had a thing for him, as well as me. He liked me, so he chose me, and then he dumped me after a week or so. In hindsight, it was really my fault since I was real flirty with him, and he had told me before that he liked roomie1. I managed to win him over; unfortunately, it was simply short-lived.
"Look if you want to keep stereotyping otaku and geeks, first you should do some research, you loosely associate the term to those who you think are otaku but not, they just simply geeks and regular fan of anime."
I told you guys about this bitch, I told you.
But nobody listens to me. Anyways some REAL advice for you:
insecure... low self-esteem...
You were made fun of alot as a child weren't you?
i think you have to remember one thing about human beings. everyone is naturally programmed to act in their best self-interests. the person you should be with is is someone who is mature enough to overcome their impulses. well, if you ever want to talk further, let me know. it would be interesting to see the resolution of your situation
Well, that's quite a situation. He does seem a bit flakey, but maybe he had his reasons for just up and leaving like that, though it doesn't come off well. Maybe he felt that was the best way to go? It seems really immature though to not even leave a note or something, sounds to me like he didn't have the guts to say goodbye. And maybe he'll return, but it's unlikely. I'd advise you all move on as soon as you can.
I think we've got a psych PHD on this board