Ok, so there is this situatin. I was at a friend's birthday, and there was this Venezuelan girl there. Since there weren't many girls there and mostly black guys were running around (the guy who had a birthday was black himself), one could see that she was kind of uncomfortable. So I chatted a bit around with her, but I, now in retrospect, know that I acted awkward like sliding on the sofa from far away right next to her. So, long story short, I talked not really much with her and acted strange, but she still seemed to respond positively.
should have asked for her number when you left the party.
If you called her out of the blue, it'll seem kinda stalkerish since she herself didn't give you her number.
"Meeting her through a mutual meeting again is also more or less out of question because the friend's gf is a bit bitchy about this girl in particular."
forgot about her. learn from your mistakes; get her number before you leave the party. there is nothing you can do about it now.
No other possibility guys? Come on
nope, unless you meet her at a party by chance
"I think asking for her phone number from my friend would appear strange to her."
Who cares? Do it. At the worst, she gets weirded out and doesn't react positively. At the best, you get together. If you don't call her, nothing will happen. And if she does react negatively, who cares? Not like you'll ever see her again afterwords.
Agreed. I got my gf's phone number from her sister, and called her to arrange friendly meetings and such before I actually asked her out, but it worked for me.
YOU CAN DO IT ASKING-HER-FRIEND-FOR-HER-PHONE-NUMBER OTOKO
Ok, I have an opening. She has a birthday soon, and this mutual friend of ours is getting invited. Maybe he could ask for me to come with him.
If this will succeed, how I should approach the situation? A "oh hi I forgot to take your phone number lolz" or just "hi" and start to talking much, never even mentioning the birthday of the friend and how I didn't approach her much?