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1 Name: Love fiasco-guy : 2006-08-11 14:50 ID:DDv9P8Sx

Ok, so there is this situatin. I was at a friend's birthday, and there was this Venezuelan girl there. Since there weren't many girls there and mostly black guys were running around (the guy who had a birthday was black himself), one could see that she was kind of uncomfortable. So I chatted a bit around with her, but I, now in retrospect, know that I acted awkward like sliding on the sofa from far away right next to her. So, long story short, I talked not really much with her and acted strange, but she still seemed to respond positively.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-11 16:02 ID:Heaven

Your posts are so boring.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-11 17:43 ID:Heaven

should have asked for her number when you left the party.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-11 19:19 ID:3mmD0uFB


counter-saging some bitter trolls

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-11 20:38 ID:Heaven

Please stay on topic.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-11 21:15 ID:8GgYz7t1

If you called her out of the blue, it'll seem kinda stalkerish since she herself didn't give you her number.

"Meeting her through a mutual meeting again is also more or less out of question because the friend's gf is a bit bitchy about this girl in particular."

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7 Name: 3 : 2006-08-11 22:32 ID:vw7o/RXE

forgot about her. learn from your mistakes; get her number before you leave the party. there is nothing you can do about it now.

8 Name: Love fiasco-guy : 2006-08-13 16:06 ID:68kjnDeI

No other possibility guys? Come on

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-13 19:33 ID:vw7o/RXE

nope, unless you meet her at a party by chance

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-14 00:52 ID:3FTueneF

"I think asking for her phone number from my friend would appear strange to her."

Who cares? Do it. At the worst, she gets weirded out and doesn't react positively. At the best, you get together. If you don't call her, nothing will happen. And if she does react negatively, who cares? Not like you'll ever see her again afterwords.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-14 02:50 ID:OY5pfH+I

Agreed. I got my gf's phone number from her sister, and called her to arrange friendly meetings and such before I actually asked her out, but it worked for me.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-14 05:48 ID:Heaven


13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-14 05:49 ID:Heaven


14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-14 20:27 ID:tqBSKH9g


15 Name: Love fiasco-guy : 2006-08-15 12:30 ID:bfTvJrhj

Ok, I have an opening. She has a birthday soon, and this mutual friend of ours is getting invited. Maybe he could ask for me to come with him.

If this will succeed, how I should approach the situation? A "oh hi I forgot to take your phone number lolz" or just "hi" and start to talking much, never even mentioning the birthday of the friend and how I didn't approach her much?