I am a pre-op female to male transgender. I am bi and a seme type of peron, which doesn't work too well in male relation ships, unless I find the ocational guy who doesn't want to admit to himself he's gay (which, obviously, isn't going to work out in the long run).
god that's a really weird situation.
i don't think anyone has any advice to give you on that whole problem there.
good luck and write a book or something....
Yeah sorry, I really don't know, but good luck to you. From what I have heard gays can even be discriminatory to bi people, so I am sure it is really hard for transgender as well... good luck
Fuck that. Tell them later. If they are really interested in you, they'll look beyond the fact that you still have a vag. Sadly I know this might not work because most gay men I know are too busy being interesting in suckin' dick.
1) you are a female
2) you like men
3) but you don't want to have a relation with men who prefer women over men, no
Ever seen the Crying game? Don't tell them til later and then they may not care.
Other than that, I cannot really help you. Haven't had enough experience in the whole transgender, homosexual areas.
I always figured the best bet was to find a bisexual person, because there's more of an off-chance that the person won't be bothered by the parts, because they already like you for you, and the gender parts aren't as important.
I think there was some book written by a very angry lesbian that accused transgendered people of being gay people that can't accept their homosexuality, and as perverts trying to subvert homosexual culture and enforce patriarchy (insert other extreme feminist vocab here).
if you have nothing rational to contribute to a conversation about trans issues, please stfu
>pre-op female to male transgender
I don't get it... so you had a vagOO and changed it to a little pOnOs?
And I shouldn't have saged that.
I'm confused O_o