If she goes bitch over a shitty picture who would care about losing her? Seriously, it's like a quality-control for you too.
You don't say you look bad on photos, you pick out the most useless picture you can find, preferably one where you look like a mongoloid or something and say "Here, this one does me good justice I think". Then you lol.
Secure, relaxed and humorous is an icebreaker with personality, if you do the same about your appearance it will sell good too, even if you're not handsome.
Don't take yourself too seriously, and don't take superficial people seriously. Instead, appeal to peoples laidback side, if they don't have one, don't bother with them. Seriously I have never met one person with good qualities and lack of severe mental issues who has not been cool about stuff like this.