I was in sociology a few days ago when a girl sitting ahead of me began running her fingers through her hair. This habit has always fascinated me because of how raw and beautiful it is. She then carried it to her right shoulder and turned her head to face back at me.
We know as little as you. Hell, even the girls here don't know about their kind.
Things like that have happened to me on many occasions.
Agreed, she has not done enough to communicate her interests. I suggest getting to know her a little better first before making any judgments.
your stats please.
You need to find out what kind of personality she is. If she's the bookish type, you'll have to set your schedule around going to the library so you can build up your INT stat. From your story, she sounds more like the kind that is interested in fashion and the latest trends, which means you'll have to schedule in time to work points into your APPEARANCE and GEN. KNOWLEDGE stats.
Hey just try talking to her and see where things go from there
Yeah, but he won't be able to initiate any more encounters with her unless he works on his stats more, so it's not quite that easy.
>> I will forfeit everything for this girl..
wth.. you didn't even say you had liked her before this questionable "incident".
Okay, so basically you fall for any girl who just so much as gives you a second glance?
If you want a pretense, then start from something small, like borrowing her liquid paper. Then depending on your relationship with her (how long you've been classmates with her) strike up a conversation regarding something that she owns. For example, if she's listening to music, pretend that you're bored and ask her what she's listening to (that will give you some indication of compatibility). Or (if you're really stuck), make mention to the weather. But that's kind of an overdone icebreaker, and she might be sassy enough to pick up on what you're doing.
>>But that's kind of an overdone icebreaker, and she might be sassy enough to pick up on what you're doing.
>>Okay, so basically you fall for any girl who just so much as gives you a second glance?
I don’t believe in ‘matchmaking’ and ‘finding someone.’ Who you eventually come to stay with for the rest of your life will be little different than the girl you dated for a few days in 4th grade. One makes their partner, and comes to love who that is. I think it’s naïve to believe you’ll ever find someone truly ‘compatible’: the best you’ll ever get is someone a little bit so.
This thread is a little bewildering. I like it, though.
Oh my god.
Dude, you sound like a real creep that's your problem right there.
This explains why you're having so much trouble. You stress way too much about what would go wrong. Considering that you don't believe in matchmaking and the like, I don't see how you would be hard hit if she said "no". Afterall, you said so yourself, you have around 5 "chances" a semester...which is alot?
>>This isn't rocket science you know.
For some it is.
Pushher up against a wall and put your man penis in her woman vagina
>>Please don't fixate or obsess on this one girl who you don't even know, really.
I don't know if I clarified this fact in my first post, but I have no one. My success with her will radically change the outcome of my life and the decisions I make for decades to come. I don't understand how anyone could be expected to not feel unsure in my situation.
i really don't think she'll care if you shaved or not...
True, I don't think she assesses the situation as much as you seem to do. If it's not too long since she asked for your notes, I think it would be a good idea if you went up and asked her if she still needed them. If she says yes, then great (don't stuff it up). If she says no, then just say "that's good, cos last time you asked, my notes were really messy..queue small talk"
It is done, I guess.
I wrote "I'm sorry if I've perturbed you. I was looking a your hair, it was distractingly beautiful." I feel like a liar already. I probably should have never posted any of this. It will be the death of our unborn relationship.
what a freak
before you do things, ask yourself "is this creepy?"
I only read the first post. Instead of replying with stupid eye contact, why don't you TRY AND ASK HER OUT ON A DATE. I hate to repeat myself dammit.
FIRST give her a compliment, such as I had never noticed how appealing your eyes are. Would you like to go out on a date? HECK you can even compliment her on how she runs her fingers through her hair!
I just read >>22. Oh God. Please. How corny. I know I'm in a bad mood but I will have to repeat myself. AND THIS GOES TO ALL MEN IN THIS BOARD!
<You are supposed to be trying to attract her, not make her feel uncomfortable. The one who has to put up with the uncomfortable position of asking a girl out and facing possible humilliation is YOU.>
bumping because i just have to know: how in the fuck does it take 30 minutes to get an ant off your arm?!
After reading >>22 I now seriously doubt OP's competency and judgement more than ever. Are you trying to troll your own thread?
I was going to go into more detail, but it seemed really irrelevant outside of the effect it had on my approaching her. The ant may have either killed or spawned a cementation between us.
ugh you're so creepy.
Take it with humor. Don't put a long face. Face her straightforwardly and in an assertive way. Be cool, be humorous, be nice. You will remember stupid things like that with a smile in your face. So try to make the best out of your time with her with the best of attitudes. You DON'T want to look back and regret your boring emo life. Don't be a wimp, a sissy, or an emo. Please.
I posted >>15
and even I cannot help this man.
Oh god, even I couldn't fail as hard as you, >>1
But there's one thing you shall remember, "there's plenty of fish in the sea"
I think he sets himself up for failure.
Seriously, what kind of prank are you trying to pull? There is some decent advice here and yet you go on some wacky tangent to find the best way to scare away the girl.
I gave her the note because I didn't want to bother talking to her and wasting her time. It wouldn't have made a difference. I understand how gravity and ledges work. She's on the ledge or she's not. I can't change that.
She'll either talk to me now or she'll ignore it. In either case I don't even care. I don't even want her anymore. She smiled at me this morning, but it was more like a laughter as I see it. I would have smiled in her place, too.
/Seen upon entry into library
/Seen to right upon exit from bathroom, obviously awaiting me
Ok, now wtf. Just tell her you like her and ask her out to do something, anything, (sex) together.
Ravage her like no man has ever ravaged her before. Then have sex with her.
I'm single, and like you have no record when it comes to women, but come on man, freaking out about a stupid ant?! Get your fucking act together and go on the attack! hope this helps.
>>36 Stop assuming girls are treating you with ill intentions for small things. Women are not like men. Women eat and breathe relationships. There is nothing, no reason for you to assume ill intentions from her part, and even is it were so, women can still have sex with guys they hold ill intentions toward. (It's a guilty pleasure.)
Relationships do not follow you around. You follow relationships. A person that awaits for others to talk to them first before you talk to them has not matured socially (meaning you're like a little kid expecting to be treated well by others before approaching them).
Typo: "when she askS you on a date"
Hello. A small update.
She missed 2 days of classes, so I assumed she had cut and ran after I treated her coldly on our walk to class.
ouch man, either your just some guy with too much free time on your hand or you got a real problem.
stop trying to "calculate" everything so they get "right" and instead, for FUCK'S SAKE, start changing your self instead. be a little bit positive about your self, and stop thinking for people, shit, they think what they think, you can't just assume what people think with over analyzing their reactions.
I packed together ever so slowly so as not to be too fast for her and went out behind her. She accosted me at the corner and said do you want to see the boy I mentioned I took photos of him. She pulled out her cellphone and I looked over and she said no just a moment as if get yours eyes off my phone and I turned my head but saw a picture of her with her arm around another boy of her race as her background. My mind sank a bit. She showed me and I said yes, that did look like me. He had terrible posture bent over a desk and a big shaggy head and a curved grey sweatshirt, just like mine. I said that could have been me actually but she said she no, called to me and he didn't answer and I told her that when I became very "absorbed" I didn't hear anything at all and she said no I saw his face. We walked away and she said do you have class? I said no. She said she was going to the library to meet her brother and asked where I went. I said the library she "oh." We walked on and she talked about the coldness and her sickness and I said is that why you were out. She said yes. I hopped over the cemented corner and I heard a plop and walked on and she looked and went back and picked up my book. She turned it over, and handed it to me. I said oh - thanks, in the most offhand and careless and light way since I did not care, really, and she was obligated to do such things for me anyway because we were friends. And in any case I saw I them accusing me Idid it on purpose because I wanted her to see who I read. Salinger's Nine Stories. I envisioned giving it to her weeks back with For Esme bookmarked but just took it and held it. We went in and she said no, the right not the doors I'm going to go see some of my friends. I followed her and she walked ahead and we came to their table. Four black-eyed Indian boys looked up at me and I held the craziest face-encompassing grin I could. She realized I came with her and said no, no and something or other. I said oh, goodbye then see you and walked off.
It's obvious that you get a kicked by the telling your stories and you know the indian chicked is interested in you adn you want to brag about it. You want to amuse yourself and us by pretending you apathethic in your action towards us yet i know you are thinking she is easy. Whys that? Because are white, you shouldn't be so quick to think that you are good or whatever you think she likes you for, but you got it easy simply because you are white. She likes you because you are white and nothing else, don't boost your esteem here. You did nothing to achieve a girl but only you are white, she go for you. You didn't have anything to offer her but your race. Understand that point, you did nothing. Don't think you are successful, you are not, you are benefitting simply because you are white, got it?
Ha ha what the hell? You sound severely jealous. I started this thread to ask for help and in return for that I provide developments. And even if I didn't return, I still thought it might be an interesting idea to set up a day-by-day account of a relationship from beginning to end for you all. I don't understand why you can't appreciate that.