I'm typically above the whole "crush" thing, I'm 22 and a college student and have had a couple serious relationships in my time. But this guy has me down to acting highschool... I'm very shy and I've known him since last semester (we had a class together then) but I was preoccupied with getting over my last serious relationship that went down the tubes.
Well how do you see him during those ten minutes? Are you guys like waiting for class to start or osmething? IF so, just go like
"So what calss are you here for?" and start a conversation? Try not to look so nervous. Just be casual. Being nervous gives you away.
I know what class he's coming from and we talk every time.
I'm just not good at reading people or getting something like this out at such a fast pace.
just ask him if he wants to grab a coffee or something after class
I'm just really worried about coming on too strong or weirding him out if I read things wrong. I'm really not the sort of person to ask someone else out.
Well just asking him to have a drink with you isn't bad. It's kind of like "Let's hang out sometime." Don't say like "Let's go out." Just say what >>4 said.
The complication on this is that I only see him when I'm on the way to somewhere and I have no idea what his schedule is.
Thanks for your replies. Anymore advice is very appreciated. ; ;
If you both peruse /b/, just randomly ask him if he would let you stick it in his pooper. Things will go smooth from there, I guaruntee it.
Asking him for coffee works. Open up with a "Hi, how are you?" ask him if he wants to get coffee after class. He will probably say yes and then tell you when he is done with class. Just keep it causal and you will be fine.
Yeah, I think knowing that we're both pretty desensitized to everything is working to my benefit.
I have a plan now. >:D